Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

 Hai selamat malam. Konbanwa. Lady 1 – Cik Eryn (45 years old), from Cirebon, works in Kota M, Johor. She has been working as a caregiver for a Chinese elderly person for three years. “Cuti gimana… Di rumah nggak ada orang,” ( Translation: “How can I take leave… There’s no one at home.” ) Lady 2 – Cik Mam (50 years old), from Surabaya, works as a bakery and cookies maker. She’s currently living in JB. “Belum ada cuti, bos Cina,” ( Translation: “No day off yet — Chinese boss.” )

 Hai selamat siang! Cik Watie, 49 years old, is from Kota P, Pahang. She is currently taking care of her sick father, who is paralyzed on his left side due to a stroke. She used to work in Mersing. She is a widow and has two children, aged 32 and 29. I assumed she got married at the young age of 16. "Iye," she concurred. Then later she told me that she's been divorced three times already.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik To Be Bee (not her real name), a widow from Kulai, has three children aged 8, 11, and 14. She said that she and her husband had been separated for two years. Later, she applied for fasakh , and the court approved it. She said her ex-husband has never provided child support. She tried to summon him through the court again, but it was useless. "bayar culas, malas dah nk bising2, " "cuma cakap tak halalkan je lah,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Dessy works in Kota D, Kuala Lumpur. She’s originally from Banjarmasin, South Kalimantan. She’s a widow who lost her husband four months ago due to health problems. When asked about her children, she replied: "Anak 7," "Lelaki 3 perempuan 4,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Azlin (42) is from MCity but currently lives in Melaka. She works as a clerk and is still married. When asked about her children, she said, "7 org," 

 Hai selamat pagi Sabtu. Cik Watie (47) is a divorced woman from Kota T with five children. Two are already working, two are in high school, and the youngest is in primary school. She’s currently working as a temporary security guard. "Gnti2 org je skrg," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hana is a widow with three children. Her late husband passed away on 23rd January this year after suffering a heart attack at the age of 54. Her children are all grown up now, and two of them are married. She said she doesn’t mind being friends with divorced men, but not with someone’s husband — she doesn’t want to share her future husband with another woman. "Nanti i jeles," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Silfia, 39, is from Putrajaya. She works at an Arab restaurant. She has two children, aged 13 and 9, who live in her village. She has been divorced for two years. “Apa nak tanya lagi.” Later, she sent me her photo. When I checked again on 7/2/26, she had changed her profile name to Seroja.

 Hai selamat pagi. Konbanwa! Cik Zie, who went to KK last week, said she will come to my town when she’s free. I told her that nothing is free — not even the public toilets. "Toilet petrol station petronas shell free je.. bersih dan wangi. Tak caya pergilah," "Awk mai dr zmn purba ke.. yg masuk toilet berbayar tu dah knapa," she's mocking me.

Hai selamat pagi Senin. Kak Mar was one of the ladies in the group that went to Mersing a few months ago. From what I know, she’s a Muslim convert from Sarawak. She currently has a rather strict husband. She’s now living in S Town and recently replied to my WhatsApp status about me hiking a nearby little hill. "X ajak pun," "Boleh ke ajak?" me asking. "Boleh," she answered unexpectedly.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Liza from TS town is a widow with 4 kids ages 18, 17, 16 and 10. Without hesitation she gave me her whatsapp number. "Skrg boleh tak pinjamkan rm40,"  "Nak beli lauk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Previously, Cik Nat told me that she had been sick for two months due to a spiritual issue. She called an ustaz and has already undergone a ruqyah session. She is a Quran teacher. When I asked her to come to my town, she gave the excuse that her children might visit her during the weekend. She also told me that she never goes out on a date without her children’s permission. "mak pon manusia biasa," 

Tue, 7/10/25. Cik Nour, from Greenwood, has been divorced twice. From her first husband, she has two children. In her second marriage, she was in a polygamous relationship, but her ex-husband had problems with her son. They were married in Thailand and never got the marriage registered locally. However, she managed to obtain a divorce certificate from the Thai authorities. "Surat cerai nor dh g amik dkt thailand," "Nor brtaklik, ada saksi," 

Hai selamat malam.  Cik Zie is living in Ipoh. She recently got divorced and has just completed her 3-month iddah period. Actually, she had been living alone for 7 years, as her ex-husband was working outstation and never came back to see her. "tak sangka.. 22 tahun sy membuang masa," "hidup tak mcm org berkeluarga," "" tp anak² membesar dgn sy. Alhamdulillah.. masing² di asrama skrg. Yg sulung baru je sambung belajar di Besut, "

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Pal, 44, is from Putrajaya and works as a clerk. She has one son who will be taking the SPM this year, and she is a divorcee. "kalo kne gaya semua jadik banggggg,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Eyda, a young Jakun woman who is divorced, told me that she has not been working at the drone factory since last week. At first, the company paid her half of her salary, but now she’s receiving no pay. Update: Later, she told me that she is already in M City for work. She has gotten a job as a café waitress. "U blh tf kt acc i 20,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Reza told me that her son is in the ICU in JB. She needs money to travel there. "U boleh pinjamkan duit dua ratus ringgit?" "Kakak dia bgtau adik dia sakit kepala pgi tadi, dh pergi hospital buat mri ada ketumbuhan stage 4," "Selama 4 tahun kebelakangan ni, adik tu pnh mengadu sakit kepala,"