Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rose Ros, 46, is from Seberang Perai Tengah, Penang. She is originally from Medan and has been working as a factory worker for the past three years. She has four children, two of whom are already married. She shared that she had a boyfriend about two years ago, but decided not to continue the relationship after realizing that he was someone else’s husband. She also mentioned that the man, who was Chinese, wanted her to convert to his religion. I told her that in Indonesia, interfaith marriages are quite common, as long as both people are sincere in their relationship. "Orang Indonesia banyak mcm itu," "Tapi saya tak mau ngorban kan agama," "Tak semua sama,"

 Hai selamat noon. Mbak Delia (47) is living in JJ now. She’s from Sumatra and has not been working for the past month. When I offered her a job cleaning my rented house, she said she has never worked as a house cleaner but can do mopping only. "Iya mau krja tapi yg hari2 ada, klo cuma 1x aja besok ngangur lgi y sama ja,"

 Hai selamat afternoon. Cik Jun, 50 years old, works as a cleaner at KipMall supermarket in Tampoi. Tomorrow is her off day because it’s Christmas Day. Acturally she's working as a wedding accessories promoter at KipMall and Giant Tampoi. She originally is from Mersing. She's a single mom and has 4 children. She warned that she doesn't like people calling her at midnight after 11.30pm. She prefers those who can wake up early in the morning for her future imam. “Bleh la jmpa.” But later, I realized she was actually giving me a warning. "Lau sy ckp ,M sti u x nk jumpa  sy," What she meant was: "Kite bleh jumpa Tp sy x nk check in hotel tau, "

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Sofieya, 45, a widow with 2 children. She works as an auditor in PJ. "x paham lah apa u ckp," 

 Hai selamat tmalam. Cik Mus (50) from Damansara is an Indonesian TKI who does not have a work permit and is afraid to travel far by bus. She said she has been through four marriages before, and all of her husbands were Indonesian. She showed me photos of her first three ex-husbands. Note. I confused because last time she said she's a widow but today she said she's been married four times.  Link . Then later I asked her again about her ex husbands.  "Gak ganteng la Ngam Ngam," - talking about them. No. 1: Her ex-husband married two more women, but she was his first wife. No. 2: A bank officer from whom she borrowed money to support her children. No. 3: A lorry driver who was infected with COVID and passed away. No. 4: A businessman whom she married secretly without the consent of his first wife. Later, when the first wife found out, they divorced.

  Sat, 20/12/25. Cik Arni, 49 years old, has one daughter and lives in a rented house. She has just completed her iddah period after her second divorce. Her first husband passed away in 2018 due to dengue contracted at his workplace, and since then she has been receiving SOCSO benefits of RM2,600 per month. Her first marriage was held in Thailand due to her husband didn't want to tell his first wife.  Regarding her second ex-husband, she said he abused her due to his bad habit of online gambling. He also used to hit her. "Dia sebut talak tiga kat kawan2 dia,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Mus a 50 years old lady is staying in Damansara KL. She's an Indonesian working as a caregiver. She's a widow and no working permit. She's afraid to take a long distance express bus. "Paspor ada, masih hidup," "Permit sudah mati,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Shera, 42 years old, is from Penang. On her profile, she warned that she doesn’t want scandals and is “anti-buaya.” But not long after, she gave me her WhatsApp number. She told me about her life story. She’s originally from Baling, Kedah, and has been an orphan since she was a baby. She has a brother, but she never met him until she was about to get married. Before marriage, she was very independent — she had her own house, three cars, and two motorcycles. Her ex-husband initially worked in a factory, while she was a lecturer at UM in KL. Later, her ex-husband joined the PDRM, and they were transferred from KL to Penang. At first, they lived happily. But in late 2022, her ex-husband developed psychological issues, became hot-tempered, and started hitting the family. She and her children also experienced mysterious illnesses — blood coming out from their noses and bodies. Doctors eventually gave up and advised her to seek traditional healing. After the divor...

 Hai selamat malam.  Mbak Eryn, 45, now lives and works in Kota M, Johor. She’s an Indonesian lady from Cirebon, West Java. She said she has been in Muar for three years already, working in a Chinese household. She also has a valid work permit. Then, suddenly, we didn’t chat for a month. However, a couple of days ago, we started chatting again. But she likes to call me ‘sayang,’ which honestly makes me feel a bit awkward. "Sayang kan bukan berarti cintra akan tetapi silahturohim saling menyayangi sesama manusia.. Begitu kawan,"

 Hai selamat malam. ราตรีสวัสดิ์ Rātrī s̄wạs̄di̒. Cik Cinta told me at the beginning that she’s from Kedah. She’s 44 years old and is now a single mother. She was actually born and raised on Langkawi Island. She also said that she has mixed Siamese heritage. When I jokingly said that since she has Thai blood, she must have a hot temper and know Muay Thai, she responded: "Blh la setakat nk MKN pasir,"

Hai selamat malam. คุณอิซาห์ อายุ 55 ปี ปัจจุบันอาศัยอยู่ที่พันดาน จายา อัมปัง เธอทำงานเป็นพนักงานส่งเสริมการขาย แต่ก่อนหน้านี้เธอเคยทำงานเป็นเจ้าหน้าที่ธุรการที่ร้านจาเกล Cik Isah, 55 years old, now lives in Pandan Jaya, Ampang. She works as a promoter, but previously she worked as a clerk in Jakel shop.  "atuk wong jowo keturunan wali songo," But later she block me for an apparent reason. Lol.

 Hai selamat tengahari. คุณเอ็นดุนอายุ 43 ปี มาจากเชราส์ กรุงกัวลาลัมเปอร์ เธอมีลูกหนึ่งคน อายุ 15 ปี เธอเป็นผู้หญิงอีบันที่หย่าร้างเมื่อปีที่แล้ว Cik Endun is 43 years old and from Cheras, Kuala Lumpur. She has one 15-year-old child. She is an Iban lady who got divorced last year. "Au dh ka gawa dulu ku," which i dont understand the meaning. 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Linda, 44 years old, lives in S Town and has three children. At first, she told me she was driving a Grab car, but later I realized she was actually a pak wan cha (teksi sapu), transporting sick dialysis patients. She brings her son along because there is no one else to take care of him right now. Currently, her car has broken down, so she is using her friend’s car to do the transportation. "Awak ada kereta lebih ke,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Chào buổi chiều. Cik Sofea, a 49-year-old housewife, lives in Bandar J. She said she prefers to find nearby candidates for companionship, but she doesn’t like one-night stands. "nk yg dekat, selalu blh jumpa," "sya x nk yg alim sbb sya jahat,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Ms Nguoi Thu Ba is from Vietnam. She can’t speak English, so I use a translator app to communicate with her because she seems friendly. To her, everything is ‘không.’ ‘Không’ means ‘no.’ So, I blocked her.”

Hai selamat pagi.  chào buổi sáng. Cik Aweena, a 49-year-old widow from I City in Perak. Her late husband passed away just six months ago, and they had been married for 25 years. She has no children. Currently, she is selling kuih-muih (traditional cookies) for events. "Suami sy excident dng lori pasir,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Chào buổi sáng, tình yêu của anh/em. Cik Snaa từ Taiping gửi gắm tình yêu. Cô ấy có sáu đứa con và làm việc trong một nhà máy. Cô ấy thích nghe người khác hát karaoke. Cik Snaa from Taiping with love. She has six children and works in a factory. She likes listening to people sing karaoke. She's been divorced for 11 years. When I told her that she has too many kids — like a train with many cars — she just laughed. "Hahaha" 

 Hai selamat malam. Chào buổi tối. Cik Eyda, một cô gái người Jakun, đã ly hôn tại thị trấn P ở Pahang. Cô ấy không có con.  Cik Eyda, a Jakun girl, a divorce from P town in Pahang. She has no kids. Cik Eyda, who is now working in Melaka town as a waitress, is having difficulty getting leave. But she will be taking leave next month, on the 10th and 11th of December, which fall on weekdays. She plans to return to her hometown in Pahang. When I jokingly asked if maybe someone was planning to send her a marriage proposal, she replied: "Xdernye, 𝐵𝑙𝑚 𝑚𝑎𝑠𝑒 𝑙𝑎𝑔𝑖 𝑚𝑙𝑠 𝑛𝑘 𝑓𝑖𝑘𝑖𝑟," 

 Hai selamat pagi, Chào buổi sáng. Cik Ell, còn được gọi là Miesha, hiện sống tại Taman KM, JB. Cô có năm người con và đã ly hôn được năm năm. Cô không thích bị gọi là "janda"; cô thích được gọi là "mẹ đơn thân". Cik Ell, 46 years old, also known as Miesha, now lives in Taman KM, JB. She has five children and has been divorced for five years. She doesn’t like being called ‘janda’; she prefers "smom," "sbb my ex carik lain," 

  Hai selamat malam. 2.30 in the morning now. สวัสดีตอนเช้า ตอนนี้ตี 2.30 น. คุณกั๊ก อายุ 48 ปี เป็นผู้หญิงไทย ทำงานเป็นหมอนวดในเปอร์มัสจายา เมื่อฉันถามเธอเกี่ยวกับอัตราค่าบริการ เธอตอบว่า: "ฉันไม่รู้ค่ะ ฉันทำงานรายเดือน" Ms Kak, 48 years old, is a Thai woman working as a masseuse in Permas Jaya. When I asked her about the service rate, she replied: "I don't know, I work monthly." 

 Hai selamat sore.  Cik Kaey in Pahang is very careful with the men on the app because she’s worried about being scammed or dealing with foreigners. When I told her I saw her age listed as 41, she replied: ‘Next month will be 42.’ Am I saying wrong?

 Hai selamat malam lagi. Ratri swasdi (ราตรีสวัสดิ์). Cik Jun from JB replied to my message this afternoon. She’s 50 years old and has four children. Her previous job was as a café crew member, but she didn’t like it because her employers — a husband and wife — were very demanding. She also complained about her current job as a cleaner, saying it’s hard and tiring. "Syu sawi tumis air & sambal ikn," she told me about her lunch.

 Hai selamat malam. Tusbih 'ala khayr (تصبح على خير) . Cik Permata Biru (PB) lives in Taiping. She’s 47 years old and has eight children. She works at a fruit stall. When asked about her divorce, she said: ‘Baru je.’ ( ‘Just recently.’ )

 Hai selamat malam. Καληνύχτα! Cik Aqis, also known as Lina (42 years old), lives in Bandar BS, Perak. She works in a factory and has just finished her five-day night shift. When I asked for her WhatsApp number, she gave it to me without hesitation. I immediately sent her my first message. It’s a common misconception that women in their 40s should already be married and have a family. Soon after, she sent her first photo. She mentioned that she doesn’t like befriending married men, even though she’s never been approached that way before. ‘Tak pun,’ ‘Sebab niat kita nak solat,’ ‘Bukan nak buat hal.’ ( Translation: “Not really,” “Because my intention is to pray,” “Not to cause trouble.” )

 Hai selamat malam. (usiku mwema) Cik Sitihajar (40 years old) is from Alor Setar, Kedah. She’s currently not working and has two children. When asked about the reason for her divorce, she replied: ‘Benda lpas tk pyah nk ingat,’ ( ‘No need to remember what’s in the past.’ )

 Hai selamat malam. 晚安 Wan-an. Cik Eve, 32 years old, lives near where I’m staying now. She works every day, and her boss doesn’t give her a day off. She makes bakso daily — Indonesian-style meatballs — from her home. She’s not Indonesian, though. She’s been divorced for two years and has one child. ‘Weekend pun kena gentel bakso,’ ( ‘Even on weekends, I still have to roll bakso.’ )

 Hai Selamat siang. Neng Defri (49 years old) is from Padang and now lives in Kuala Lumpur with her daughter. She’s helping with her daughter’s business, as her daughter holds a visa. She used to stay here on a dependent pass when she was with her ex-husband. It all sounds quite complicated. Her ex-husband isn’t a local. "Orang jawa, " "Mantan ade ic,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Nor, from P Island, is looking for sincere friends to chat with and reminds others not to ask about her status. At 9:58 p.m. last night, she wanted to sign off, saying:   "esok sya kje pagi," "Sya nk tidur dh," 

 Hai selamat malam.   Chúc ngủ ngon. Cik Nurul (44 years old) was curious about me staying here in this area. She wondered whether I’m in the navy, even though I’ve already mentioned it on my profile. She said she’s quite busy with her job as a clerk at a supermarket. "kerani pasaraya je awk," "xmcm org lain kje hebat2," "ni je mampu,"

 Hai selamat malam. Chúc ngủ ngon. Cik Zarin (50 years old) is a widow from Ban District of Selangor. She has 3 children. "Allah lebih menyayangi arwah," "Kita pun akan ikut ke sana kan,"

 Hai selamat petang. "Disaat aku mula percaya tentang cinta, saat itu juga kau ajarkan aku erti kecewa."   Miss Ayra, 31 years old, has been divorced for three years and has no children. She’s currently working as a volunteer. This morning, she said she was going to her neighbor’s house because they were leaving for Umrah. "Xpe ke panggil awak,"

 Hai selamat petang.  Sekarang hujan di sini. Cik Dew, 54, now lives in BP Town. She’s originally from Padang, Sumatra, and has been working and living here for 14 years. She has two grown-up children back in her hometown. She recently divorced a local man after his first wife found out about their secret and illegal (un-consent) marriage. Her ex-husband works as a contractor. When asked about her citizenship, she said: ‘Belum… tu hari dah minta, tapi imigresen minta surat poligami.’ ( Translation: ‘Not yet… I already applied the other day, but immigration asked for a polygamy letter.’ )

 Hai selamat malam. Konbanwa. Lady 1 – Cik Eryn (45 years old), from Cirebon, works in Kota M, Johor. She has been working as a caregiver for a Chinese elderly person for three years. “Cuti gimana… Di rumah nggak ada orang,” ( Translation: “How can I take leave… There’s no one at home.” ) Lady 2 – Cik Mam (50 years old), from Surabaya, works as a bakery and cookies maker. She’s currently living in JB. “Belum ada cuti, bos Cina,” ( Translation: “No day off yet — Chinese boss.” )

 Hai selamat siang! Cik Watie, 49 years old, is from Kota P, Pahang. She is currently taking care of her sick father, who is paralyzed on his left side due to a stroke. She used to work in Mersing. She is a widow and has two children, aged 32 and 29. I assumed she got married at the young age of 16. "Iye," she concurred. Then later she told me that she's been divorced three times already.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik To Be Bee (not her real name), a widow from Kulai, has three children aged 8, 11, and 14. She said that she and her husband had been separated for two years. Later, she applied for fasakh , and the court approved it. She said her ex-husband has never provided child support. She tried to summon him through the court again, but it was useless. "bayar culas, malas dah nk bising2, " "cuma cakap tak halalkan je lah,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Dessy works in Kota D, Kuala Lumpur. She’s originally from Banjarmasin, South Kalimantan. She’s a widow who lost her husband four months ago due to health problems. When asked about her children, she replied: "Anak 7," "Lelaki 3 perempuan 4,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Azlin (42) is from MCity but currently lives in Melaka. She works as a clerk and is still married. When asked about her children, she said, "7 org," 

 Hai selamat pagi Sabtu. Cik Watie (47) is a divorced woman from Kota T with five children. Two are already working, two are in high school, and the youngest is in primary school. She’s currently working as a temporary security guard. "Gnti2 org je skrg," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hana is a widow with three children. Her late husband passed away on 23rd January this year after suffering a heart attack at the age of 54. Her children are all grown up now, and two of them are married. She said she doesn’t mind being friends with divorced men, but not with someone’s husband — she doesn’t want to share her future husband with another woman. "Nanti i jeles," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Silfia, 39, is from Putrajaya. She works at an Arab restaurant. She has two children, aged 13 and 9, who live in her village. She has been divorced for two years. “Apa nak tanya lagi.” Later, she sent me her photo. When I checked again on 7/2/26, she had changed her profile name to Seroja.

 Hai selamat pagi. Konbanwa! Cik Zie, who went to KK last week, said she will come to my town when she’s free. I told her that nothing is free — not even the public toilets. "Toilet petrol station petronas shell free je.. bersih dan wangi. Tak caya pergilah," "Awk mai dr zmn purba ke.. yg masuk toilet berbayar tu dah knapa," she's mocking me.

Hai selamat pagi Senin. Kak Mar was one of the ladies in the group that went to Mersing a few months ago. From what I know, she’s a Muslim convert from Sarawak. She currently has a rather strict husband. She’s now living in S Town and recently replied to my WhatsApp status about me hiking a nearby little hill. "X ajak pun," "Boleh ke ajak?" me asking. "Boleh," she answered unexpectedly.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Liza from TS town is a widow with 4 kids ages 18, 17, 16 and 10. Without hesitation she gave me her whatsapp number. "Skrg boleh tak pinjamkan rm40,"  "Nak beli lauk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Previously, Cik Nat told me that she had been sick for two months due to a spiritual issue. She called an ustaz and has already undergone a ruqyah session. She is a Quran teacher. When I asked her to come to my town, she gave the excuse that her children might visit her during the weekend. She also told me that she never goes out on a date without her children’s permission. "mak pon manusia biasa," 

Tue, 7/10/25. Cik Nour, from Greenwood, has been divorced twice. From her first husband, she has two children. In her second marriage, she was in a polygamous relationship, but her ex-husband had problems with her son. They were married in Thailand and never got the marriage registered locally. However, she managed to obtain a divorce certificate from the Thai authorities. "Surat cerai nor dh g amik dkt thailand," "Nor brtaklik, ada saksi," 

Hai selamat malam.  Cik Zie is living in Ipoh. She recently got divorced and has just completed her 3-month iddah period. Actually, she had been living alone for 7 years, as her ex-husband was working outstation and never came back to see her. "tak sangka.. 22 tahun sy membuang masa," "hidup tak mcm org berkeluarga," "" tp anak² membesar dgn sy. Alhamdulillah.. masing² di asrama skrg. Yg sulung baru je sambung belajar di Besut, "

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Pal, 44, is from Putrajaya and works as a clerk. She has one son who will be taking the SPM this year, and she is a divorcee. "kalo kne gaya semua jadik banggggg,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Eyda, a young Jakun woman who is divorced, told me that she has not been working at the drone factory since last week. At first, the company paid her half of her salary, but now she’s receiving no pay. Update: Later, she told me that she is already in M City for work. She has gotten a job as a café waitress. "U blh tf kt acc i 20,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Reza told me that her son is in the ICU in JB. She needs money to travel there. "U boleh pinjamkan duit dua ratus ringgit?" "Kakak dia bgtau adik dia sakit kepala pgi tadi, dh pergi hospital buat mri ada ketumbuhan stage 4," "Selama 4 tahun kebelakangan ni, adik tu pnh mengadu sakit kepala,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Maria is willing to drive and come to see me on her Proton Saga. She's a widow now and was married 3 times. She gave me her fake photos which looks younger and slimmer.  "This ex teacher wanted to marry me and told me that he got monthly rm7000 pension salary," 

 Hai Selamat pagi. Cik Maria is seeking friends for long-lasting companionship, if compatible. She has been married three times. Her first husband divorced her after 18 years, the second marriage lasted only 3 months, and her third husband passed away from a heart attack. She previously worked in a pharmacy for 20 years, and now she sells products online from home. "Penat dh nk kawin rasanya," "Sy suka laut,"

  Thu, 25/9/25. Two days ago, I messaged Cik Cho. She finally broke the ice by telling me that she’s already married. She’s living in KL with her new husband but occasionally comes back to her house in Taman K, JB. Note. Cik Cho has been married twice. From her first marriage, which ended in divorce, she has three grown-up children. Her second husband, whom she was married to for 11 years, passed away three years ago, and they had no children together. "i x buat kenduri," "I x duk jb ni 24hb nk blkk jb 27hb blik sini blik," "1hb nk g kl 2hb ✈️ jakarta," The other girl, who lives in the northern part of the country, told me that she’s going to get engaged to someone else. I just want to wish her good luck and a happy marriage.

 Hai selamat petang. こんばんは Cik Nana still chatting on the apps. She lives in BP city. When asked about her status, she said: "tengah mencari pasangan yg sesuai unk dijdkn suami dan ayah unk ank2 sy,"

 Hai Selamat sore. Stumbled on cik Yatt again on the platform L. I think she didn't recognize me. She's a widow for 3 years already. When asking about her late husband which I already knew, she said: "Mati mengejut," "Dlm tido," "Tapi ada sejarah sakit jantung,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Shee from the town of K is 50 years old and has never been married. She's been caregiving for her mom, who passed away recently. She likes jogging, eating, and DIY. When asked, her weight is only 50 kg. She's proud to be a Pakistani descendant . "U ingat saya Melayu ke?"

 Hai Selamat tghari. Cik Nur whom I just knowing her for a few days. Suddenly she's asking 100 bucks to buy medicine for her sick mother.  "Kalau abg baik sye Sudi jadi kekasih," "Sye keje cetring tpi cuti baru je," "18hb sye gaji ganti balik,"

 Hai selamat malam. 祝大家节日快乐 Cik Iza is a widow with 8 grown-up kids. She has a weird voice, and when asked about it, she said: "Ye, I pakai gigi palsu, seribu ringgit I pasang."

 Hi good morning. 早上好 Cik A is still married, and I have known her for a few months now . She has 3 kids and lives in a Felda settlement. The youngest son is 16 years old. When asked about her relationship with her husband, she said: "16 tahun tak disentuh, dari anak saya umur kecil dulu."  从我儿子小时候开始，16 年都没动过。

 Hi good morning. Cik Ita is working as a maid in PJ. She's from Sulawesi and has 3 kids. She likes to travel but her  current employer limits her freedom. "Bukan tdk suka, saya punya bos ni sedikit cerewet," "Cuti pun di bagi 2 minggu skali ja,"

 Hai selamat malam. A divorced lady with one kid would like to see me even though we had only known each other for a few days. She's working in a restaurant and finds it hard to get a day off. "Pernah je jumpa navy kat rumah dia masa bini dia kerja," "Saya tak suka hotel, baik rumah sewa you," she said, reflecting her bad experience being caught by majlis agama before.

Hai selamat pagi. Suddenly, the Palembang widow, Dik Mel, asked me to accompany her to watch a movie. But I told her that I was currently staying very far away . "Jauh ny,"

 Hai selamat petang. Now the divorced Cik SZ is showing her empty and lonely hotel room during her vacation. She seems like a psycho lady.

 Hai selamat tengahari Isnin. Dear diary, do you still remember a few days ago when Cik Teduhan Kasih (Ida), who has 7 kids, asked to borrow some money, which I ignored ? Yesterday, I sent her my photo at the beach on the island. "U ni kenapa?" "Kenapa masih ganggu sy lg?" Then I blocked her WhatsApp .

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Eyda told me a story about her big sister, who took the husband of their eldest sister. The sister already had three kids with the husband. But now she's having a family crisis too. "skrg sibuk naik turun mhkmh minta cerai,"

Hi good evening. Cik Teduhan Kasih (Idah) whom I met a few days ago asks me a favor. She wants some money to support her children. "Boleh ke nk pinjam duit sikit sy nk pakai urgent ank2 sy nk sklh," :

 Hai selamat malam. Good night. Cik Lita has been divorced since 2014, after her failed marriage due to her ex-husband’s polygamy. The chubby lady who is selling "ayam gunting" at the TB beach once told me about her story. "Bini ex yg ketiga sangat meroyan, I tak kisah poligami," she said.

 Hai selamat tengah malam. Cik Teduhan Kasih (Idah) was nearby divorced lady with 7 kids (4 girls and 3 boys). When asked about her ex husband who is a policeman, she told me that he was hot tempered and liked to hit her brutally. Finally she made a police  report and filed a divorced.  "Sekarang sy baru saja berhenti kerja, tgh cari kerja,"

 Hai good afternoon. Ms MD is still married and lives very far far away in the east coast. "Knp nk takut?" "Hidup satu je, Ikut Kita punya hak," "Skrng hidup I complicated," "Husband so affair dgn perempuan lain," 

  Hai selamat pagi. Then suddenly I reckon this lady at the sosmed. She's the one who asking me whether I am still remember her while I was outstation in kota BC. "Kapan ke kota BC lagi?" "Abg masih ingat saya tak?" "Aku Meri yg antar jemput bawa mobil orange," "Pernah makan di kota T," "Pernah abg bawain milo," "Lupa ya?" "Kebanyak cwek,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Jue a widower for 9 years with 2 twin daughters. She's working at the nearby RG Hotel as a housekeeping supervisor. Talking about her late husband who passed away due to the heart attack at the age of 45. "Arwah suami i dulu baik sgt, perfect, takde sapa bole match him," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Reza (46) from M town is willing to see me tonight. She's driving to my hotel to pick me up. I shared my location with her — twice. But she doesn't like to use Waze or Google Maps, and relying on her knowledge of the area, she just drove to the hotel. However, she kept calling me many times. What the fish. She has 4 kids, 3 of whom are already married. The last one is staying with her. She has been divorced for 14 years. Currently, she's doing a small business taking customer's orders, selling cakes and nasi campur. Then we went to kedai mamak opposite of Aeon M. "Tujuan sy join dating apps nk cari customer utk bisnes I nih,"

 Hai selamat sore. This morning I just say hello to Cik May at Felda AT. But she mentioned about her dismenorea or "senggugut". "May tengah sakit perut DTG bulan,"

 Hai selamat malam. I know Kak Yatim from my old company back in 2015. Two weeks ago, she put up her WhatsApp status: "Tak blh tido nie. Apa nk buat?" I replied to the comment: "Knp cikkak, abg xde kaco ke?" Then she told me that her late husband passed away last year. He had many diseases, such as heart problems and high blood pressure, and had previously undergone an operation on his frozen shoulder. He was 59. Then she talked about wanting to turn her house into a homestay instead of renting it out . "Rumah cepat rosak lepas tu untung sikit kalau buat homestay kalau dpt 10x dh cukup lepas tu kami nk lepak2 dh mudah,"

 Hai selamat pagi. 她总是问我过得怎么样。 Cik Yanie (DB) always asks about my well being and how I'm doing. "Sampean wes mangan.." "Wes turu.." When I told her that I am watching tiktok, she curiously asked, "karo sopo..."

 Hai good afternoon.  பத்து பஹாட்டில் உள்ள சிக் ஆன் 2 மாதங்களுக்கு முன்பு ஒரு மோட்டார் சைக்கிள் விபத்தில் சிக்கினார். Cik Ann in Batu Pahat got a motorcycle accident 2 months ago. And we not chatting since that accident. This morning at 5.30am I send her a whatsapp message. "Dah 2 mlm X bleh nak tido..." she replied.

 Hi good night. அனைத்து வாசகர்களுக்கும் நல்ல இரவு. Cik Ain, a PPKI teacher with 2 children who is almost divorced. Now she's living in Melaka. She's not giving me her whatsapp. Instead she prefers to text and send messages me through Telegram makes me feel uncomfortable. "sya msih wife org," "awk nk kwn ker,"

 Hi selamat malam. Buenas noches. Cik Ju living in Felda A.S. She's a housewife while her husband working in a factory in P.G. "Ank2 ada yg sulung 16 thn, no 2 - 13 thn, No 3 - 11 thn. Anak istimewa Anak no 3 autisme," "Perempuan, Ank tak berckp, Jln kaki tonjit," "Pkdk kat pekan M, terapi, "

 Hai selamat pagi. Buen día. Dik Mel told me a few days ago that she was quitting her job here. She planned to go home to her country, but would stay in Batam for a while. She also said she would come back here for a new job. But yesterday she told me that she met her agent. The agent told her to stay here for a while and continue with her current contract until next May . "Mel tak jadi balik, agent suruh hbskan kontrak je bulan 5 thn depan,"

 Hai selamat malam. Buenas noches. Mbak RK is now working in Klang, Selangor. She is a Christian woman, divorced, with two children. "Kenapa awak banyak tanya?" she said. She mentioned that she is from Flores Island and currently works as a cleaner. She has been working here for 10 years in a laundry shop. When asked whether she is Sundanese, Javanese or Madura: "Bukan la,"

Hai selamat malam. Buenas noches. A Felda lady lives in the KT district. She replies to my messages quite slowly . At the moment, I still don't know whether she's divorced, a widow, or someone's wife. When asked why she joined the online apps, she responded: "Cari kwn2," Later, she told me that she's still someone's wife and has three kids.

 Hai salam sore. Dik Mel es de Palembang.. We supposed to meet this weekend. But last night she's asking me to redeem her gold bracelet at the pawnshop. I told her that I don't have money. The lady gets sulky. "Ok lh bang tak apa, kita rekan niaga produk A je bang ya,"

 Hai selamat pagi. I know Cik Amy, a divorced woman with two children, though one of them passed away earlier. She works as a delivery person based in Taman R. "Buat mase ni sy xde rase nk kluar la awk,"

Hai selamat malam. I saw cik EYD status on her whatsapp. Are you okay? I asked her just now. "Bnyk bnde nk fikir bile keje," Ooh. Actually she is thinking about her job as a QC. "Banyak barang tk.lps keluar sbb budak ii part time buat," "Hari ii nk hadap,"

 Hi konbanwa.  昨日、私はこれら2人の女性がもともとインドネシア出身のことを知っていました。 どちらもシングルマザーです。 Cik Yuli (37) originally from Palembang then migrated to Batam island. Working as a cleaner for 7 years, she got a 14 yo son. She only has 2 days off per month. "Cuti xtentu," "Boleh cuti hr isnin sampai kamis je," "Jumat sampai Ahad xleh cuti," "Gampang, tapi capek jugak, namanya kerja," Another lady, cik Yanie (48) originally from Lampung. She weighs 56kg and is 145cm tall. Talking about her ex husband who is 7 years older. "Buat apa ganteng, kalo gak setia," kata-kata seorang perempuan setelah menjadi janda. "

 Hai selamat petang. Cik RH said after becoming widow, she got many offers to be second wife. The first offer from her brother in law (her late husband's brother), but she's not interested.  The second offer from her good friend and also as a co worker at the factory. Even her friend offers her husband to her so that they can take turn making love during their periods. She said she also not interested with the husband. She saw him recently admitted to hospital.  "Walaupun sya tk cantik sya gemuk ..sya ada test sya," "Ank perempuan sya pun bagitahu Sya kalau nk kahwin jgn cari org tua ...ibu TK penat ke asyik jaga org sakit,"

Hai selamat malam. Cik Iza originally from Sabah baitu. A divorcee who's working in a spa in pekan YP. But recently moved to Taman AH under the same employer. "Massage kan 1hr Rm120 pun,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ria skrg ada di JB. Dgn teman2 yg dtg dr KL. "Kerja, 4 hari saja" katanya. Bila aku ajak keluar, dia kata "boleh," "lepak2 makn je, nak bawa shoping pun boleh," Tapi ... " Gak ada duit tak usah ajak cewek jalan bang , 😂"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ani from Batam, who is working as a warung helper at nearby hawker stall. Last weekend, her teenage girl and her sister in law were balik kampung in Batam. But she didn't tell me until today. Yesterday (Monday), she was quite busy with the work at the stall. "Penat gile hari ni, kami tadi niaga cuma 2 orang je tau, yg lain cuti," she told me. "sebenarnya skrg ni aku lapar gile tapi penat juga, x larat nk keluar,"  But yesterday, they arrived from Batam.  "nanti la insyaallah hari kamis kita jumpa makan malam nanti aku ceritakan kisah aku sedikit," "hari ni sama esok aku de part time," "hidup aku ni terlalu rumit bang," "terlalu banyak masalah,"

  Hai selamat pagi. Cik Putri from Palembang, a widower with 2 kids at home. She has been working as a factory worker here for 3 years now. Yesterday she went to M town to buy something by taking a bus. She took a Grab from her hostel. Alone. "Naik Grab mahal, mending naik bas aja, maklum hemat,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik AK cerita pasal lakinya. Sudah lama laki tak pulang ke rumah. Bulan lepas bila pulang pun cik AK masih layan BJ. Bengang sebab laki main tikam je walau dia tak ready.  "Tikam je sakit tau.. BJ tu utk dia je sonok.. Abes aku camne?" Cik AK pernah 3 kali operate kat hospital. Pernah lepas operate, cik AK minta laki ambil di hospital. Tapi laki buat² tak endah je. Walaupun laki tu drebar Grab. Jadi dia pesan Grab, boleh pula laki cakap, "Drpd amek Grab baik awk bayar kat saya je,"

 Hai salam Subuh. Dik Mel, a TKI is a widower from Palembang. I know her more than one year already. Now she is working in different factory of fitting rubber. Last night she told she got mc due to her hand was hurt. "Mel mc bang mel tak sihat ,hrs ny kan mel sfift malam," "Tangan bengkak," "Cr kerjaan lain bang," "Abg tak kesian mel.ke,"

Hai selamat petang. Setelah kembali dari Batam, kami masih belum bertemu.  Senin lalu aku mencoba mengajaknya kencan.  Sebenarnya dia sudah siap tetapi dia menjawab sangat telat.  Pada saat itu aku sudah berjalan keluar untuk membeli burger.  Lalu dia ngambek padaku dan membatalkan kencan.  Hari ini (Kamis), tiba -tiba dia mengirim sms kepada aku pagi ini.  "hari ni abg keje blk puk brapa?" "Hmm" "Xpe la" "oh,tadi NK ajak ABG diner"

Hai selamat pagi. I know Cik AL for quite sometimes now. She said she is working as a hotel cleaner. I plan to meet her this weekend for the first time. "klu nk jumpa Sye ...Sye bole sjee tunggu stesen KTM okay..."

Hai selamat pagi. Ifah, a 58 year old widower. 3 kids, 1 OKU kid passed away. And she got 2 grandkids. After keeping quiet for a month since last Raya Haji, she's sending me the first message: "Senyap jer tak msg," "Sibuk ke," I told her that I am quite busy, and she was keeping quiet too. "Tak lah saya nak msg mengedik kat awak kut," "Malu lah ppuan mula kan dulu,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Baru kemaren cik RB smpi dr Pulau Batam. Turun di terminal PG. Kerja di kampung baru P. Takde wasap kerana dipantau laki di Batam. Bila ajak ketemu, "Nantik boleh tak saya pinjam duit bang," " Gajian awal bulan saya bayar,"

 Hai selamat malam. Ya, cik I masih berehat di apartment LJ nya setelah serangan sakit jantung pada hariraya haji kelmarin. Kedai makannya pun msh blom di buka. Bila ditanya pasal 2 org pekerja Indonnya, "Sorg dh kawen dgn laki Pakistan."

 Hi good night. Ms Joy from the Philippines working in KL. She is a caregiver. Not divorce yet, but separated. "𝐿𝑜𝑜𝑘𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡𝑜 𝑡𝑎𝑙𝑘 𝑡𝑜, 𝑓𝑟𝑖𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑠 𝑜𝑟 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒..." "𝐶𝑎𝑛 𝐼 𝑠𝑒𝑒 𝑦𝑜𝑢?"

 Hai selamat senja. Cik E janda Orang Asli takde anak yg baru keje di Senai.  "Kaklong tu dh byk kali kawen. Skrg laki nya baru 2 tahun," "Penah laki no 2.dia masa tu kantoi main dgn kakak dia yg sorang lagi. Dua2 lari tapi skrg dorg dh kawen."  "Kak Long ok je sbb dia agak kuat agama (Kristen), dia ckp dh takdir,"

 Hai slmt tghari. I didn't know that she is an Orang Asli, not a Malay girl. She was married once for 10 years and is now divorced. "laki pemalas, pemabuk, panas baran," No kids. A few months ago, she got engaged to a local Malay guy. Unfortunately, her fiancé was involved in a motorcycle accident and passed away. They were supposed to be married in September this year. She has a tattoo on her left hand — her name with a red rose. Looks nice. Reminds me of my ex - nurse tetek besar. But cik E's tetek is not big. ;) "𝑈 𝑡𝑓 𝑟𝑚XX 𝑘𝑎𝑡 𝑠𝑦 𝑏𝑙ℎ 𝑥🥹 𝑥 𝑐𝑘𝑢𝑝 𝑤𝑒𝑡 𝑛𝑘 𝑏𝑒𝑙𝑖 𝑏𝑎𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑔 ..𝑛𝑛𝑡𝑖 𝑔𝑎𝑗𝑖 𝑠𝑦 𝑏𝑎𝑦𝑎𝑟 𝑏𝑙𝑖𝑘 𝑏𝑙ℎ ??"

Hai selamat malam. Cik Lim is working at NB Chinese Foodcourt. She has two children back home in Indonesia. She has been here for almost two years now.  She is of Chinese descent and is now a Muslim. When she first arrived, she was forced to work as a caregiver, taking care of a house full of elderly people—even though the agent had promised her a job as a restaurant helper. She was very upset. In the caregiver’s house, she was forced to remove her hijab and cook non-halal meat. Fortunately, she still had her passport with her. Eventually, she ran away from the agent and the house. Now she's working as a restaurant helper. But serving drinks only. When asking to meet, she says: "bukan tak mau tapi bos aku galak, " "takut aku di marahin,"

Hai selamat malam. Keliru dengan cik Ani dgn cik Ain. Rupanya cik Ain yg dh kasi nombor wasap tapi tidak dibalas. Cik Ani dari Batam (asli Medan) punya 3 anak, masih krisis dgn suami. Skrg cik Ani kerja di warung ZnA, sama dgn anak perempuannya. 2 lagi anak tinggal di Batam sama ibu. "aku takut la bang, sebab abg ade bini aku trauma," "dulu pernah juga nk jumpa ama orang tapi dia ade bini," "terus bini dia datang tau tabrak aku," "bodoh nya lagi itu laki2 bagitau pulak aku ddk mana," "so aku masih trauma bang, sorry ya,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik R is not a janda. She's still not married yet. Meeting at resto MJ discussing about new job opportunity for me. With current toxic working environment, I might accept the job offer. "But the contract only for 3 months,"

 Hai selamat malam. Aku mula2 chatting dgn cik K ini pada 23/4/25, lebih sebulan yg lalu. Aku ajak kuar ngeteh pada petang hari yg sama, mula2 dia kata boleh, tp kemudian dia tak jadi. Okay lah. Beberapa hari lepas, aku sapa dan ajak dia kuar lagi. Dia kata ok, rabu malam ini. Ada 3 anak - dari 6 hingga 13 tahun. Suami baru meninggal beberapa bulan lepas akibat paru2 berair. Curiosity kills the cat. She's been in this country for 15 years already. For her passport issue, she has a marriage visa.  "Tak perlu cop passport every year, just fill up the form at the immigration office," she said in fluent english. 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ina patut jumpa masa raya haji. Tapi spt biasa, whatsapp tak bjawab lama.  "Saya tiba2 sakit belakang," she replied yesterday. Then kept quiet for a few days again.  Today early morning at 5.18am suddenly she messaged with her warded pic (no face) ,  "Saya serangan jantung nak jawab cam na,"  "Ni baru sedar,"  "Mungkin orng lain yg balas wsup," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Kal yg tinggal di pekan P dikenali lebih 2 bulan. Mula2 aku ingatkan dia Indon. Tapi lama2 dia tak suka ckp Indon. "Indo bukan Indon," "Ckp je la melayu," "Soon jdi malaysia," Bila aku tanya pasal pacarnya dan bila mahu menikah, tiba2 dia meroyan. Dia kata dia pnh kawen dgn org Malaysia tapi dh meninggal. Innalillahi.

 Hai selamat Tengahari. Cik Puan N di bandar M. Janda anak 3. Kerja di kedai tomyam tapi bukan tukang masak. Manakala pagi pula kerja memasak untuk banduan2 penjara.  "xyah nak selfie sgt,"  Kes cerai baru sahaja selesai bulan Februari. "Hujung bulan 4 aritu habis eddah,"

 Hai selamat pagi. DeqN, a widower with 2 young kids. She's willing to show her beautiful pic with the kids after realising that I'm not someone's husband. While driving, I'm sending her voice notes while she's texting me. Her husband got a fatal motorcycle accident after work last year. No insurance or saving forcing her to sell nasi lemak.

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Ros from T island. got 7 kids and has been divorced for 8 years. "Semua dah besar," "Sy Nk berkawan... cari teman hidup," 

 Hai selamat malam Jumaat. The first few chats.. then suddenly she's asking to vc early in the morning.  She's giving me her whatsapp number easily. I vc her for a while when I was walking to worksite. Not as pretty as her profile photo. Fake profile photo because she's using her younger version. When I complained, then abruptly she changed the photo. She gave me her Tiktok link and showing her ugly smiles. She suspected I was one of her deceased husband's friends. It's not possible. I never knew anybody from CB area. "Saja nak tahu," "Mana tahu kawan arwah suami saya apa ke,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik AK bukan janda, tapi masih isteri orang. Cik AK skrg berada di Banyuwangi, dekat Probolinggo. Kelmarin dia kata nk naik superbike dgn "adik".  "Naik motor x smpi 2 jam..." "X sampai.. 70km... P bromo.."

 Hai selamat malam. I checked on previous chats. Found this cikgu Nor, a teacher from town K. When I send a new message saying and whatnot, she doesn't seem remember me. It's okay. It's a while since the last ramadhan. She insisted not to give her pic and whatsapp number even I asked her many times. Then suddenly she texted me, "nak topup boleh," =========================== Then, also after scrolling my whatsapp numbers, I saw this lady is idling for the last few days.  Cik Azlin who is from Big River town, and after few chatting, suddenly she asked, "Sy nk pakai rm40," "Utk Sy bli gas dgn myk mask je," "Selasa ni Sy byr blik," =========================== Then, the other Lady Ana at Princess Cove resort who was borrowing rm30 from me last week. Until now just kept quiet. When I texted her just now, "Maaf kerana ad masalah," "Kira duit sy burn erk? masalah awk pon x selesai," "Ni masalah lain,"

  Hai happy Thursday noon. Cik Ina at LJ replied my messages quite late.  "ingat awak taknsuka saya perempuan dimmm, " with typo is quite confusing me. Actually she wanted to say, that i might not like to befriend her since i told her last time that she's demanding on the hantaran. Then I reckon that she is blocking my WhatsApp.  Cik EYD agreed to go out with me tonight. Yes. Cik NUR a single lady from P island, like to reply my messages. She works as a labor at a palm oil plantation. She showed me her pic with sexy but tougher body.

 Hai salam tahajjud. Semalam aku agak sibuk melayan beberapa janda. Dalam apps dating itu dan wa seperti biasa. Cik Puan N dari kota M di pantai timur Johor. Baru dapat nombor wa. Tunjuk pakej candat sotong/ jigging/ bottom. Tapi aku tak minat candat sotong atau me mancing ikan di lautan dalam.  "Baik candat janda je," Hahaha. Cik Senah R di negeri cik Siti Wan Kembang nun jauh di mata. Sudah beberapa kali chatting dlm wa. Cik Senah R yg acah2 gedik tapi ... Cik Ina dari LJ. Petang tadi beritahu harus guna nombor wa yg satu lagi. Patutlah lama baru balas wa.  " Fon tu saya bg dekat pekerja saya utk order Grabfood, "  A new lady, cik Imah kerja di pekan GP, asal Pahang. 2 kali cerai. No 1 kematian suami 11 thn kawin tak ada anak. No 2 cerai 4 bulan saja, kenal di apps dating itu. Nikah lepas tu dapat tahu dia mmg tak kerja dan main barang (dadah).  " Awak bole main ke, " tiber. Cik H di taman T. Tgh lipat baju when I mesej. " Ada free time boleh j...

 Hai salam Subuh. Selasa malam cik Ana tak cantik baru wasap dari Princess Cove resort hantar mesej. "Awak ad RM x," "RM30 je, nk ganti duit niaga hilang," "Mak bebel je x berhenti," ehh?

Hai selamat Tengahari.  Pagi tadi aku vc cik Ina. Dia cuti hari Isnin, tak bukak kedai makanan. Bercakap pasal hantaran, rupanya dia pun demand. Ingatkan tidak kisah pasal jadi laki sebulan sekali. Dia mahu laki bawa jalan2 gi oversea,ie Thailand, Indonesia sbb dia tak pnh ke sana. Aku sempat rakam tanpa suara.  Kemudian bila tanya semula pasal hantaran dia yg hebat tu... dia jwb, "Mesti ...lah sekali seumur hidup abng.. tu pun utk buln madu.. bersama-sama," "Kalau tak.. kena pakai duit sendiri .." "Sendiri ..."

Hai tuan admin, boleh sy minta pendapat psl rakan wanita anak dara tua umur 45 masih menunggu dengan setia suami orang.. isteri beliau masih tidak bersetuju poligami.. apa yg harus beliau buat? Ini mesej jawapan yg lembut tapi tegas... Assalamualaikum sahabatku yang dikasihi, Aku tulis mesej ini bukan untuk menghakimi, tapi kerana aku sayangkan dirimu sebagai seorang wanita yang tabah, baik, dan setia. Aku tahu kau dah lama menunggu, dan aku tahu perasaan cinta itu bukan mudah untuk ditolak begitu saja. Tapi aku nak tanya dari hati ke hati — sampai bila kau nak teruskan menunggu sesuatu yang belum tentu jadi milikmu? Kalau dia benar-benar serius, pasti dia akan buat keputusan yang jelas sejak dulu. Tapi bila tahun demi tahun berlalu tanpa kepastian, tanpa keizinan isteri pertamanya, dan kau pula masih setia menanti... aku bimbang kau sedang menyakiti dirimu sendiri, walaupun kau tak sedar. Kau wanita yang berharga. Kau layak dicintai dengan penuh penghormatan dan kejelasan. Bukan disim...

 Hai salam tengahari. Pagi tadi sempat VC dgn 2 orang mak2 org. Cik Ina pertama kali VC dari kedai makan. Sekejp je borak2. Kemudian cik AK VC dari rumahnya. Semua anak2 dan mak dh berangkat ke Surabaya utk ke Bromo semalam. Dia kesunyian sorang2 kat umh. Smlm kata nk gi KLCC tapi... "Malas lak..." "Huhu... Cuaca pans," =================================== Hai selamat petang. Petang Ahad sempat chatting dgn 2 janda. Cik Fina di taman K soh dtg ke rumah ajak ke Bazar Karat. Mula2 ingtkn umh dia di kota M mcm dulu, tpi msh di kampungnya di K.  "Abang jum kita pegi bazar karat lps magrib," "Fina ada nk cari brg nk pakai kerje," katanya memujuk. "Jauh," kataku. Kemudian dia senyap. Haha. Cik LIY di Princess Cove resort pula tiba2 beri salam kat aku punye wasap status. Dia bosan tu sbb takde pelanggan di warung makannya.  "Sy tak cantik awak," ehh tiber.

 Hai, selamat malam. This Saturday afternoon, I drove from JB to KT town. Cikmas, who came from SA with her lecturer friend, was staying at Hotel C. It took me 55 minutes to reach her hotel. Then I brought her to Resto B for her brunch. Note. Cikmas is a bachelorette, and is now 45 years old. I think I know her for more than 20 years. We talked about her long-time boyfriend, who is still someone’s husband. When it came to their relationship, she said there are only two options: "number one - until his wife accepted polygamy," "or over his wife dead body,"

Fri, 23/5/2025. On Friday evening, I met a widowed lady at the satay restaurant on Jalan Denai. We hadn’t seen each other for quite some time. We didn’t talk much like we usually do. She was also busy chatting with her business downlines during the meal. "Jumpa pon tiada kata²", " " Free² joom la hiking, "

 Hai selamat pagi Kamis. Last night I met this old lady, Fina, 54 at her sister's house at Lorong Rambai. Actually I didnt contact her since 29 Jan 2025. I didn't know her and doesn't have her pic. She once was dating a widow man, working in oil and gas industry and always going offshore. He brought her to shopping mall and bought her new t-shirts that she likes. Now he's in Dubai. We went to this tomyam kampung style restaurant nearby although she wanted to go to Bandar DO. I dont feel easy with her, not because of her appearance but mostly of her attitude not  punctual and kept me waiting when I first arrive although she knew that I was coming to pick her up.

 Hai selamat petang. I met this widow, mek INA from east coast. I picked her up at her condo and we went for dinner. She's a chef with 2 indon workers.One of the workers is staying together in the condo. She likes to talk too, about her late husband and her hard head daughter. She said she want to find her future husband for once a month. Reason 1 is because she doesn't want to control her husband. Reason 2 is because she wanted to focus on her children in the house. On her latest messages: "Sb tak nak dia bosan.. bila sebulan sekali cinta nye untuk sy mesti kuat ... dan keghairahan.. luar biasa.. so sy dihargai.. kalau hari2 .. gaduh.. bosan.. macam2 lah., kan" "Lagipun.. sy ada anak.. sy perlu temn kn anak sy.. Kalu sekali dgn sy, mungkin dia marah anak saya," "Kalau dah sayang.. ikhlas.. tak kan gaduh.. duit bukn segalanye.. memahami yg penting,"

  hai selamat malam. NA of S town. Janda dua kali cerai. Sekarang saya tiada hubungan apa2, cuma berkawan sahaja. Pertama kali jumpa semalam, borak2 pasal rumahtangganya, suami yg pertama cerai fasakh sebab tidak bertanggungjawab dan kaki dadah, suami kedua pula cemburu yg amat tinggi. Buat masa ini saya tidak mahu komitmen (ikatan nikah) sbb sy sudah byk alami. Dia tidak berkira tentang status pekerjaan bakal suami, suami pertama pernah menjadi business partner jaga stesen minyak caltex di kedah, pecah amanah; suami kedua driver lori, Tapi NA tidak mahu suami orang, yakni poligami. Jawapan.  Assalamualaikum. Saya harap tak salah kalau saya luahkan sesuatu dengan jujur. Saya sangat hormat cara hidup awak — berdikari, mengajar al-Quran, dan jelas dengan pendirian. Bukan semua orang ada kekuatan macam tu, dan saya memang kagum. Cuma saya nak berterus terang, supaya tak timbul salah faham di kemudian hari. Buat masa ni, saya tak mencari apa-apa komitmen atau ikatan seperti perk...

 Hai selamat malam. Hari ini jumpa 3 janda. Janda 1: NA, dua kali jadi janda. Jumpa kat kedai mamak Rest2 jam 10am. Ngeteh teh kosong panas dan ngobrol2 hampir 3 jam.  Guru mengajar ngaji online, masih dibelenggu bangkrap, tinggal di rumah sewa. Tabah menghadapi ujian dari Allah. Janda 2: Oops, ILA bukan janda. Cuma suami abaikan tanggungjwb sbb ada betina lain, katanya. Ini adalah pertemuan kedua. Jumpa kat Metro Plaza jam 2pm, tapi sbb masih bersama2 teman sekilang, jd jumpa jam 3pm. Janda 3: LIYAA di daerah B. Pernah berkahwin 2 kali dan bercerai. Jualan sosej bakar di pasar malam. Ini adalah pertemuan yg kedua kami.

 Hai selamat malam. Hari ini berjumpa dengan 3 jandas. Janda satu. YAN, sorang janda indon, kerja kilang. Ngeteh dan ngobrol2 di kedai mamak. Janda dua. LIYAA di pasar malam daerah B. Janda 2 kali. Ngeteh dan ngobrol2 di kedai makan tomyam dekat pasar malam itu. Dia jualan sosej bakar dgn kakak jual jajan.  Janda tiga. INA mek Klate di LJ condo. Ngeteh dan ngobrol2 di kedai makan tomyam. Janda kematian suami - pemandu peribadi. Sekarang ada pencen rm2k sebulan, jadi tukang masak dengan 2 orang pekerja Indon. Anak sulong pompuan tak setuju mak kawen lagi disebabkan trauma dengan arwah bapa sendiri. One thing about INA is that she's willing to marry her future husband for once a month because she doesn't want to control her husband. Also she got her kids to take care.

  Hai selamat malam. Cik LIY di Princess Cove resort. Janda kematian suami anak satu. Niaga di Jalan L. Bila aku smpi tadi dia mula2 malu nk jumpa. Aku makan sendirian di Nasi Lemak Atas Bukit. Lepas tu barulah dia nak jumpa. Not a pretty lady.

 Hai selamat malam. LYN - after chatting kt apps, and since she's living at High Town, so I drove to her house after work. Then I regret it because her house is very far far away passing thru oil palm plantation. It took me more than 1 hour 10 minutes to reach there. After following her gps direction, and waited at her house, then suddenly she asked me to come outside by the main road. Aiyah. Bandar Petri Jaya  LYN is a dark chubby lady with rough and black hands. This is because of her working conditions in the oil palm plantation. Then we went to bandar T food court which is quite far away too - 23 minutes She didn't want to eat meal for her diet reason. Funny. LYN still a married lady and her divorce case is still in progress.

 Hai selamat malam. THIS IS MY FIRST POST. Ati (50) penjual minyak Bidara n Jamu Pak Long Man yg original. First meeting her at PG stadium as she had an event (Bikers week). She's staying at nearby Hotel LG. I met her at 12.30am outside the hotel. Ati - 2 kali janda. Her second husband is younger than her - muay thai and liked to hit her.  "Taulah u x syok kat sy," " Suami org kan, " "bujang pon masalah jugak kann,"  " klu bujang kurang la sikit masalah nya, " "kene tumbuk terajang tu sikit ke masalah ko?"