Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

 Hai selamat malam. Last Wednesday I visited Batam Island Indonesia. Lady no. 1 -Mimy Gemoy, 45 in JB now but from Tebing Tinggi, Medan. Lady no. 2 - Nanda, 43, from Pasir Gudang. She works as a massager. She said she massage bekam is rm150 for 2 hours. Lady no. 3 - Indah, 49, from Batam. Lady no. 4 - Naimah, 56, from Batam. She has 4 children, 2 pairs. She's been divorced for 4 years. She said likes doing exercises, going to gym. Lady no. 5 - Ria JmgR, 46 from Batam. She has one child. She likes to chat. Lady no. 6 - Yani, 49, from Cilacap, Jawa Tengah. She said she's fasting today. She has one child and been divorced for 8 years.

 Hai selamat malam. Yesterday I visited Batam Island Indonesia. Lady no. 1 - Rindiani, 32 from Ogan Komering Ulu, Tani, Palembang.  Lady no. 2 - Dedew, 44, from Karimun. She said she used to travel to Malaysia via Kukup town. Lady no. 3 - Mala, 49, from Tangerang Selatan, BSD Serpong Timur.  Lady no. 4 - Az Zahra, 30, from Asahan Medan.  Lady no. 5 - Key, 49, from Batam. Lady no. 6 - Su liana (Solana), 45, from JB. She said on her profile post: orang cantik tidak selalu baik, tetapi orang baik akan selalu cantik. She lives in Kg Melayu Majidee JB. Note. This lady got another account. She works in a factory and been divorce since 2012.

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Gy, 45, from Pengerang, is married. Her husband works as a fisherman. She has four children, aged 20, 18, 17, and 15. On her profile status, she wrote that she is only open for chatting, not for scandals or “being a caterpillar.” She also mentioned that anyone who likes seafood can contact her, as she hosts a house raft for fishing. "sy jugak meniaga brg2 hasil laut,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Hanny, 52, from Seremban, works at a factory. She has three children and two grandchildren. Her husband passed away three years ago. “Sejam je,” she told me, referring to the distance between our places.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ctie, 42, from Penang and works as a childcare of her sister at her house. She has one child of her own and has been a single mother for 13 years. She's originally from JB. When asked about her photo, she responded: "xda," "nk knl x pyh la tgok pic," "knl2 gitu dh la," Ironically, when checking upon her profile I saw her photos. I just wornder why she say she doesn't want to share her photo.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Eida, 42, from Kampung Melayu JB and surprisingly she said hi first in the chat. She is a widow for the last 3 years and has no children. She's been married for 15 years. Now she works as a Grab driver. When asked whether she can go and enter Singapore, she responded: "tk lah," "dlm jb je,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Zie, 45, from Membakut Sabah. She's never been married and works as a clerk. I reckon she's unfriendly and wonder why she's still single. "Saya ni tak blh stress ada mslh kesihatan,"

 Hai selamat pagi. ik Emma, 45, from Puchong, has been a single mother for quite some time. She has six children and two grandchildren. She takes care of children and babies at her house. "Lame dh janda,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cikpuan Deanna, 43, from Kedah. She has 3 children, and been divorced for 3 years. She works as a cleaner. "org mana ni," "bhs klasik,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Honeyza, 40, from Kg Pasir, Hulu Kelang. She said she's been a single mother for 13 years. She has one boy aged 11 years. She's doing some business selling cookies. I told her that it's been a long time not to be touched by a men, referring to her 13 years of being single mom. "Haah," - she confirmed.

 Hai selamat malam. Mek WI (Wanita Itu), 56, from Kota Bharu, has been divorced four times. Later, she told me that her name is Noni. She has two children. "u boleh terima?"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Mary, 35, from Kuching works as a cleaner. She has 3 children and been divorce for 8 years already. She is a Bidayuh lady. "mana tau u malu ada kwn kja cleaner,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Kashaa Liyana, 49,  from Damansara has 3 children. She has been divorce from 4 years now. She works as a cleaner. She originally from Sarawak and married to a Selangor man. "mjanda dh 4y,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Shima, 39, from Ipoh and works as factory worker. She has 2 children and been divorce for a year. Actually, we've not chatted for quite some times since last October.  "mmg xjauh pun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cikpuan Lulu, 46, works but never tells her specific job is. Her husband works in a food center. They have 3 children. "kat dp saya tulis dah isteri org," "Aisssh parah nie!"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik CT (her nickname - Sayap Terluka), 45, from Kulai has been divorced for the last three years. She works as a clerk and has 3 children.  "pggl ct je," Later she gave me her photo after I requested it. " biasa2 je awk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hanya Mimpi (her nickname), 47, from Kota Kinabalu Sabah, has been divorced since last year. She has three children and works at a food centre. Her name is Mira. One of the reasons for the divorce was her stepson’s rude behaviour towards her. She recalled that once, during Ramadan, her stepson hit her in front of the neighbours. "Alasan kedua mgkin jdoh tu smpi sna je,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aishikin, 52, from Pontian, has six children and six grandchildren. Her husband passed away last month. She asked for my photo first. I told myself that from now on, whoever asks first should send her photo first. She asked three times before finally giving up on me. “ermm x PE lah klu x boleh,” Later, I sent her my cartoon photo, but she did not like it. She wanted to see a real photo of me. After some persuasion, she eventually sent me a photo of herself wearing a niqab.

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Liyenni, 43, from Medan, now works in KL. She works as a caregiver, looking after her grandmother in Medan. She has no children and has been divorced for 22 years. That is quite a long time. However, her statements are quite confusing for me — perhaps because of differences in culture and communication.

 Hai selamat malam. Mommy Aikha, 44, from Kedah is a single mother with 3 children. She works in a government sector.

 Hai selamat petang. Cikgu Bidadari, 44, is a widow who just lost her husband 2 years ago. She has 2 children as shown on her profile.

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Ija, 43, from Kulim, is still single and has never been married. I found her phone number when I checked our chat messages again. It had been shared a few weeks earlier. So today, I sent her a message through the WhatsApp app. "Siapa yea,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Hana, 48, from Pasir Gudang works in a nursery (pengasuh) and still single. "yes awak saya kerja jaga anak orng" But later she confirmed her age is 38, instead of 48 as per her profile. "yes awak umur saya 38,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Atie, 48, from Bukit Rimau, Shah Alam, is still single at this age. She works as a tailor. When I asked for her photo, she sent me a recent one of herself wearing a niqab. "mmng sy pakai niab," But later somehow after my persuasion, she gave me her photo without niqab.

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Laili, 20, shown her age was 55 on her profile. At first it seems confused to me. She's still single and not working at the moment. Suddenly she gave me her phone number without me asking for it. "Saya single," "Umur 20" "Tk kejee," Then later she asked me for rm10. Aha, it's a scam! "tf la sikit," - so I blocked her immediately.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Icha Aza from Klang has a daughter. She works at a snooker center.  She's been a single mother for 5 years.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aza, 49, has 4 grown-up children and they're all already working. She's been a single mother for 17 years. She works in a government sector.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Dea, 45, from Surabaya, Jawa Timur, works in Batu Pahat as a domestic helper. She has three children. She became upset when I asked whether she was a divorcee. But she said she was divorced once with her first husband. “Memang saya cakap janda????” I apologised after she clarified that she is still someone’s wife. However, her current husband is in Indonesia and, according to her, is lazy to work because he feels the pay is not worth it. "lek sak iki sik dadi bojone uwong tapi mboh terus opo ora Wong kurang tanggung jawab, males," "bayarane Ra sesuai blas," Note. I also saw one of her posts - "terkadang istri bisa jadi pengemis,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rita, 42, a cleaner from Klang Jaya. She has 2 children and has been divorce for 2 years. Originally she's from Padang, Indon. "dulu saya lm dekat Malaysia ini saya balik kampung,"

 Hai selamat malam. ik Aie, 45, from Terengganu, is not working and stays at home. She has six children. After the divorce four years ago, she did some small business. "lps cerai berjual sekejap,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Wadah, 43, from Kuching, She has 2 children and works as a cleaner. "xcakp pun sya janda, mana tauk?"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Mala, 42, from Klang and works in a factory. She has 2 children. She was surprised that I guessed her as a divorced single mom. "sya dh kwin dan bercerai tk kan nk mengaku ank dara pula heeeerr,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Lynn, 47, from Kota Kinabalu, has been a single mother for 12 years and has four children. She is currently not working; her last job was as a catering manager. She likes to talk a lot, and it feels like there is some chemistry between us. She told me that her mother is Chinese, and her father sent them to a Chinese school. There were no Islamic teachings during their school days in the States they're living in. Later, she gave me her WhatsApp number. "boleh je bercinta jarak jauh kn,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik CT, 43, from Tawau, is a single mother looking for a serious relationship. She works as a teacher and has four children. Since 2022, all of them have been staying with her ex-husband. "2023 baru declare cerai,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aini, 43, from Kulim, works in a factory at Kulim Hi-Tech.  She likes watching Korean movies and uses a WiFi connection shared with her brother next door. Later, she warned me not to talk dirty. "Sembang biasa ok jgn over sgt," She told me that she has no children. Her ex-husband is gay. They were married for six years. "Dah jgn tya dah psal dy sbb sy nk tutup buku lma,"

 Hai salam pagi. Cikpuan Zila, 41, from Muar is a wife and has 2 children. She's a nurse (misi) that reminds me of my old girlfriend with big breasts. "u buat pe dgn boobs besar nya tu," When we were chatting, the conversation became slightly awkward. I felt a bit uncomfortable continuing without knowing more about her, especially since she was reluctant to share her photo. I jokingly said, “kawan dalam kegelapan,” and after that, she became quiet. But later surprisingly and finally she submitted her lovely photo. A very nice lady of someone's wife. 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Lia, 43, from Pekan has 3 children. She's not working now and said that her mother is supporting her financially. She just been divorced for 2 months. "blom habis eddah," - i told her.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Nana, 43, from Sabak Bernam. She has 2 children, works as a chef and been divorced for 2 years. "cari kawan sembang," Later, she sent me a photo of herself. She told me that her weight is 77 kg and that she does not like sewing or tailoring clothes like other women do. "memasak tu mmg kje sya, traveling klu ade ongkos ok gk, bercinta klu dpt lelaki yg berguna, membebel slu pda ank,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ryanie, 53, from Kota Damansara is a single mom with one son.  She mentioned that she's looking for true love, not for fun, looking for someone who can into sincere relationship.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rosliza, 39, from Port Dickson is a nursery teacher. She has 1 child aged 15 years old. "Lau da kata umur dia 15 tahun da tentnya seorang je anak sy,"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Anna, 46, from Batu Pahat, has two grown-up children. She is now in JB and works in wholesale ladies’ accessories. Ironically, she has never heard of the well-known nasi beriani Benteng. She has been divorced since 2013 and is still afraid to enter a long-term relationship due to her past experiences. "Sy kerja biasa je kuli,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cikpuan Ira, 45, from Hulu Perak is still a someone's wife. She has 5 children and works as a clerk. Her husband works as grass cutter machine contractor. "pasal pa dok tgh jalan,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Anne, 38, from Keramat KL is widow and has one child. She's late in replying my messages.

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Zee, 41, from Teluk Panglima Garang. She has a tiktok account and all them showing her driving her beloved car - Mercedes Benz.

 Hai selamat bulan ramadan for muslim. Cik Faz, 44, lives in Tangkak. She is still single and takes care of her mother at home. Although she has never been married, she has been engaged twice. She said she used to work in the construction industry, in a company owned by her brother-in-law. She resigned five years ago. She has 11 siblings and is now staying at home with her sister and her brother, who is in a long-distance relationship with his wife. At first, she was reluctant to give me her photo. "sy x brani nk bg gbr yg pnuh,"

 Hai selamat tengah malam. Tomorrow marks the beginning of the fasting month. Cik Syah, 39, from Tumpat, is single. She was still awake at 1:30 a.m. when she said hi to me on Messenger. She seems friendly, which makes me wonder why she is still not married at this age. "umur 39 andartu," "i single," 

 Hai selamat petang. Cik permaisuri, 46, from Thailand but now resides in Pahang. She has 6 children and now doing lemak lemak business. "suka gurau ye..." 

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Yat, 47, from Kuala Kangsar, used to work as a teacher. She has six children and now living with some of them in KK. "Anak saya 6 orang. 2 saya jaga. 2 bekas suami jaga. Seorang meninggal. Seorang dah nikah." She said she is from Desa Perwira, JB, and revealed that she has been married and divorced four times. " No1 13 tahun No2 7 tahun No3 3 tahun No4 10 bulan" She took early retirement from a government school after being diagnosed with a mental illness.

 Hai good evening. Cik Ayu, 55, a cooker from Teluk Intan. She told me that she has 6 children after I asked her so many times.  She asked my photo but later she gave me first her photo since I insisted that she should as she requested it first.  "nh ambk,"

 Hai good afternoon. Cik Zan, 59, from Kuantan, confirmed that she has already gone through menopause due to her age. She has been divorced for seven years and has five children, three of whom are already married. Later, she gave me her WhatsApp number without me asking. "tak kerja," "makan tidur,"

 Hai good afternoon. Mbak Lisa, 43, is from Kajang and originally from Medan. She works as a house helper and cannot go out easily. She arrived from Indon four months ago and will return next year. "Aku kerja jdi pembantu aku keluar ruma anya buang sampah, mudah2an aku tidk kenal sama cowo Bangladesh,"

 Hai good morning. Cik Liesa, 37, from Kuantan, is a single mother with four children. She has been divorced for two years. Her ex-husband has custody of all the children, as she said her work requires her to move around and not stay in one place. "I kje x stempat,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Amy, 52, from Kuching is a single mom for 10 years. She has 6 children - 4 girls and 2 boys. She works as a general worker. "Last year sy ada pegi selangor,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Liya, 52, from Indonesia now works at Bandar Tasik Selatan at a child care center. She has one child and been divorced for 5 years. "jaga baby,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Gendia, 48, from JB originally from Lampung, Sumatera. She has one child and been divorced for quite some time. "Sy lama jd single mama,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Intan, 45, from Seksyen 32 Shah Alam. She has 4 children and works in a factory. When asked about how long she's been divorced, she replied: "blh laa,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Za, 47, from Klang is a widow with 4 children. Her husband, 52, passed away 5 years already due to heart attack. He was a lorry driver. Later she wants to have my number. "tapi sya x suka vc tu jer,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Lia, 44, is from Meru and originally from Semarang, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia. Even though she is a Muslim, she now works for a Chinese casket company. She has two children and has been divorced for three years. "kj keranda bg,"

 Hai salam siang. Cik Haniz, 44, from Rawang. She has 5 children and been a long time single mother. "kerja biasa je,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Miya, 41, from Penang is a single mom for a year. She has 3 children. When asked about her photo, she said she's not pretty. "Kalau awak cari cantik bukan saya," Eventually she told me that she works as a cleaner and is on leave until Sunday.

 Hai selamat pagi. Sawadee ton choi.  สวัสดีตอนเช้า Ms. Mali, 48, is from Nakhon Ratchasima, Thailand, and has two children. She works at a salon in Seremban. She has been divorced since 2020, during the COVID period. She said she came here directly under the salon company, not through an agent. "I came here to work and earn money,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Ida Aqilutt, 39, from Surabaya, now works at a salon in Bandar Baru Ampang. She has been divorced for eight years and has one child. She said she is looking for a man who can provide for her every month. I told her that it sounds like a dream — nobody is perfect. "Aduh pantas semua orang pada kabur,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik RoseRos, 54, from Ayer Molek is a single mother with 4 children. She works as a clerk. She said she will turn 55 this year, and I told her that currently she is still 54. "ikut tahun 45," "sng kire,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ella, 44, a single mother from Kuching, gave me her WhatsApp number last week and said she wanted to chat with me. She called me this morning while I was still in bed, and we talked briefly. "Abg suka dengan sy ke," "Jawab jujur,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hani, 45, from Klang, has been a widow for one year and has five children. She said all her children are already grown up. Her husband passed away after being diagnosed with several illnesses, including a stroke and kidney problems. I jokingly told her that he must have passed away because of her cooking skills — the food must have been too delicious. "Semua org pndai masak," Not everyone know how to cook - I told her that.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Sweety (Manis), 40, from Teluk Intan has been single mom for 5 years. She has 5 children and they are supporting her now. She's not working and her husband passed away. He is 4 years younger than her. "muda dri saya 5 taun,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Anje, 40, from Batu Pahat, is a single mother with two children. She currently works as a cook. "ex curang ngan pmpuan indon,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Qaseh, 49, is a single mother from Sarikei. She has 2 children. "dekat je.. ddok ats pmaidani terbang," - when I told her that she's living far far away from me. She used to work as a hotel cleaner.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Faezah, also known as Cik RATULEO, 54, from Kempas, works as a tailor. She has been married three times and is now divorced. Her first husband passed away after 18 years of marriage, leaving her with three children. Her second marriage ended in divorce after six years, and she has two children from that marriage. Her third marriage lasted only five months before she divorced him. It was a tragic experience for her, as his children and her daughter were constantly fighting after the marriage. They blamed each other. "It's like being scammed," "I had to pay everything from maskahwin, even groceries!" 

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Chombie, 50, from Manjung, is a single mother with four children and three grandchildren. On her profile, she wrote that she spends her time folding clothes, cooking, sleeping, eating, and doing nothing interesting. "p tdo la dulu sy a keje lg nk buat,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Julia, 47, is from Medan and works from home. I told her that she is living quite far away. She responded that it only takes about 45 minutes by flight. I then mentioned that many illegal migrants (PATI — pendatang tanpa izin ) fail to make it to the shores when traveling by boat. "kesiannye,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Honey (Hanie), 51, from Sungai Petani is a single mom with 4 children. The last time she replied my messages was on September last year.  But recently she sent message saying she's on vacation in Thailand, ie Danok and Hatyai with her friends. "semuga bahagia selalu utk awk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Ms Rose, 44, from Zimbabwe sent me messages.When I told her that I suspect she was a scammer, she gets upset. But later she cool down and we start chatting like normal people. She said she's self employed. She's a widow, her husband passed away last year. She has 2 daughters, aged 20 and 15. We exchanged our photos, but she wants to see my latest picture. I asked her to wait. "will wait for it..."

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Carien, 40, works in KL as housekeeping. She originally from Medan and has 1 daughter only. She's been divorced for 16 years. Sixteen long years. "Tp dah tinggal di Batam,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Azwa, 49, from KL, has been a widow for six years. Her husband passed away due to a heart attack. He was 10 years older than her. She is originally from Batu Pahat. She works as a banker and has three children, all of whom are already working. "duit bank & customer bkn i," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Liena, 47, has 7 children and been divorced for 3 years. She's from Port Klang and works as security for a factory. "Sorg je dgn saya," "lain semua dgn ayah dia," "dengan dia tu semua dah keje,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Eida Aryiel, 39, from Perlis, has five children. She has been a single mother since September 2025. She does not want to share the reason why she divorced her husband. "panjang kisah,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Meli, 33, from Tatau Bintulu and works in a garden. She has one child. She's been for number of years. "Dah ada beberapa tahun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ila, 51, from Beranang, works as a cleaner and has been a single mother for two years. She has three children. She said the reason for their divorce was her ex-husband’s jealousy. He accused her of having relationships with other men, even though she said she did not do so. "sy kawan dgn lelaki tapi tak jumpa pun.. tapi berkali2 dia tuduh sy zina.."

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik CS (Tia), 45, is a primary school teacher in Sibu. She teaches Malay and Iban. She loves reading, cooking, listening to music, flowers, watching dramas and movies, and butterflies. She has three children and has been divorced for three years. "sekolah kat sibu. beritahu pun, bukan awak tau pun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Tari, 42, from Balakong Jaya has 2 children and has been divorced for 3 years. She's quite to respond my messages. "yalh,"

 Hai selamat malam. Ms Miamakova from nowhere suddenly send this message: If $30,000 was deposited into your cash app or PayPal or any payment method how would you spend it or what will you use it for? :A car :Bills :school :families :vacation :donation :house :food stuff :business I replied: donation, then he/she asking for my paypal email account. When checking with chatgpt, it recommends I do not response anymore. These are the last messages he sent me. "PayPal email," "send it to receive your money now,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Nurulnss, 42, from Batu Pahat, is a single mother with one child. She said that she will come to my town next week to visit her sister’s family. "Tkg cuci je u,"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Fauzianah, 49, is from Kuala Penyu, Sabah. She has one child, aged eight years old. When I asked whether she works as a “misi,” she seemed quite confused, as she did not know what “misi” meant. It actually means nurse, a term commonly used in Semenanjung. "sy cleaner hospital ja," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Arein, 39, from Kelantan, has five children and has been a widow for four years. “Baru kematian suami 4 tahun.” I thought that four years is already quite a long time.

 Hai semalam malam. Cikpuan Cika, 42, is a housewife with five children. Her husband is currently not working, which made me wonder. She said he used to work as a general labourer. She herself works as a cleaner at a school. "kalau kaya, Cika tk kja,: "jgn terpedaya dgn gambar tu, tu bkn Cika,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Sha84, 41, from Sadong Jaya in Kuching, is not working. She has five children, and her husband passed away recently. "nk bg apa kalo sha tungu awk," "puasa nnti hbis iddah,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aluwi, 43, is an Indon who now works as a housekeeper in Tanjung Puteri. She has been working there for 10 months and will return home in April 2027. She does not have any leave during her contract with her employer. She understands the situation and said she would prefer marriage rather than a blind date. She had been married and divorce twice. "Tak payah pacaran bang.. klo serius lsg nikah lah klo ada jodoh,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ella, 44, from Kuching and works as a tailor at home. She has 1 child and been divorced for 2 years already. "Belum lagi abg," - when I asked whether she had her breakfast yet this morning. Later she gave me her whatsapp number.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Belacan Kering, 42, from Pengerang, has six children. She makes kuih (traditional Malay cakes) and supplies them to shops. She prefers using voice messages, but I don’t like them. "Bkn i hp rosk nk taip ssh," "I pkai geth," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Vee, 43, originally from Jakarta but now lives in Cyberjaya with her daughters. She has 5 children in total. She works in a restaurant. She said she likes to see movies.  "Masalah tersno apa tidak, kan baik bila byk kawan,"  "Byk rejeki," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cikpuan Siti, 44, from Hulu Selangor, is a housewife and also works as a clerk. She has five children. She confirmed that she is someone’s wife, as her husband works as a general labourer. "sy wife org," Note. I reckon that Cikpuan Siti is the third housewife I’ve come across today. She's a hat-trick - three in a row. 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik N, 44, from Kulai and works as a housewife. Her husband is a chef and they have 2 children. "bole gi mkn kn bkn buat apa,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Butterflies, 41, from Penang is still a housewife and she has no children yet. Her husband is from Perak and got his own business. She said she had met some friends from the chat apps. "pernah jgk jmpa," After asking something about her husband she felt uncomfortable.  "Asyik tnya pasai laki ja" "Nk kwan ngn i ke ngn laki i," 

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Rose, 47, from Tampin has 2 children and 3 grandchildren already. She's still married and works as a cleaner. "sy bkn janda, sy dh kahwin lah,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Yaya, 47, is a widow for 22 years with no children.  "bkn janda tapi balu,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Azie, 42, from Kuala Selangor has been divorced for 11 years. She has no children. "baru 11 tahun,"  "oo lama tak disentuh org," - i said. Note. While scrolling her profile and posts, I saw one of the posts is very interesting.

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Lin, 43, from KL, is a widow with three children. She works from home. Her husband passed away last September at the age of 44. "balu baru je,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Anisa, 53, from Cheras, KL, has three children. She works in housekeeping and previously worked in a restaurant. She has been married twice, and one of her husbands passed away due to a stomach illness. When asked about the cause of her husband’s death, she replied: “Tak tahu,” — meaning I don’t know .

 Hai selamat tengahari. Che Ta, 52, is from Terengganu and is originally from there as well. She has four children, aged 16, 18, 20, and 22 — three sons and one daughter. "sy keje biasa2 je," Actually she's a widow and been married for 26 years. "x sakit pun.. rebah tiba2 nk p solat subuh,"

 Hai selamat siang. Ms Ja, 49, from Setapak KL and not working at the moment. She has 3 children and 2 grandchildren already. She's been divorced for 4 years. "cerai hidup,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Ellyn, 42, from Pasir Gudang, is a housewife and home baker. She is still married, and her husband works at a nearby family-owned grocery store. She has no children. "keje biase2 kat kdai famili die,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Raina, 52, from Bagan Serai and works in a factory. She has 4 children and been single mom for 9 years. "Raina cerai sbb campur org tgh.. tu je," "mertua, org n9, bkn menantu pilihan, adat pepatih," "bkn suku dye,, elok la.. dyeorg pun 3suku,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Maya, 43, is from Seri Kembangan. She wrote on her profile: “ingin bersamamu…” When I asked about her status — such as how many children she has, how long she has been divorced, and her hometown —she asked me to answer the same questions first. She said it was up to her to ask questions, since she is a woman.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Azie, 48, from Pantai Dalam, is a single mother since the COVID-19 pandemic. She has two children and works as a clerk. On her profile, she wrote: “Cari kawan sekitar KL dan Selangor… tak nak jauh-jauh.” She said that her ex-husband never provided child support, either during their marriage or after the divorce. The reason given was that she was working as well.

 Hai selamat pagi. புச்சோங்கில் இருந்து வந்த 45 வயது சீக் ஜூலியா, மூன்று குழந்தைகள் கொண்ட தனிமைத்தாய். அவளது கெட்ட மனப்பான்மையுடைய முன்னாள் கணவரால், பல சம்பந்தங்கள் மற்றும் உடனடித் திருட்டுகள் காரணமாக, கடந்த ஐந்து ஆண்டுகளாக அவள் விவாகரத்தை அனுபவித்து வந்தாள். Cik Julia, 45 years old, from Puchong, is a single mother with three children. She has been divorced for five years due to her bad-tempered ex-husband, who had many affairs and scandals. "ada perempuan lain," "dan kaki pukul,"

 Hai selamat malam. Nek Fadyla, 52, from Klang, Selangor, has been a widow for three years. She is a housewife with seven children and is looking for chatting friends. "yaa makcik tgh layan cucu main kuda2 tok,"

 Hai salam sore. Cik Noor is 41 years old from Serenia Sepang. She's still single and works as an admin to student welfare. She dont trust the apps: "80% are fake name, umur, status,profile."

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Eina, 41, from Alor Setar, asked me to guess her status. She said she’s not a divorcee, not a widow, and not someone’s wife. So I guessed she must be a bachelor—an old bachelor. When I asked about her job, she replied: “Keja kan awak,” which stunned me for a moment.

 Hai selamat pagi. Miss N, 44, from Melaka works in a café and has one daughter. She has been divorced for about a year now. When I asked her about the reason for the divorce, she replied: "hurm rasenya belum masenya nk stroy,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik iDa (48 years old) works as a promoter in Bukit Bintang, KL. She has been divorced for six months and has five children. When I told her that she was very slow in replying to my messages due to her busy schedule, she responded: "sya ni otw g keje naik tren.. takan nk hadap fon je," She said she is only looking for chatting friends. Later she gave me her pic.

 Hai selamat pagi. சிக் சூரியா என்பது தங்கக் நகரை சேர்ந்த 47 வயதுடைய ஒரு பெண். உணவக உரிமையாளர் கடையை மூடியதால் அவர் தற்போது வேலை செய்யவில்லை. அவர் ஐந்து ஆண்டுகளாக விவாகரத்திற்குப் பிறகு தனியார் வாழ்க்கை செலுத்தி வருகிறார். Cik Suria is a 47-year-old woman from Tangkak. She is not working now because the restaurant owner has closed the shop. She has been divorced for five years and now with 3 kids. "x bkn jawa melayu,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Ifah (52) saka Gelang Patah, JB, asale saka Medan. Dheweke kerja ing omah sing duwene lagi kerja ing Singapura. Pakaryane njaga omah supaya resik lan rapi. Dheweke nuduhake aku foto omahe saka njaba, sing katon rada medeni. Mbak Ifah (52) from Gelang Patah, JB, is originally from Medan. She works in a house where the owner is working in Singapore. Her job is to keep the house clean and tidy. She showed me a photo of the house from the outside, which looked a bit creepy . “Iya, bila malam.”

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Tipah saiki manggon ing Shah Alam lan kerja dadi pembantu restoran. Dheweke asale saka Sabak Bernam. Dheweke wis tau omah-omah sepisan lan ora duwe anak. Nalika aku kandha yen umure 51 taun, dheweke kandha yen dheweke bakal umur 52 taun ing Mei iki. Kanthi guyon aku kandha yen dheweke isih 51 taun lan isih teles, dheweke mangsuli: Cik Tipah now lives in Shah Alam and works as a restaurant helper. She is originally from Sabak Bernam. She has been married once and has no children. When I mentioned that her age is 51, she told me that she will be turning 52 this May. I jokingly told her that she is still 51, and she replied: "mmg nk kena balik awk ni,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ros saka Somban, Negeri Sembilan, ngenalake awake dhewe lan kandha yen dheweke nandhang lara saraf sing kejepit ing gulu. Cik Ros from Somban, Negeri Sembilan, introduced herself and said she was suffering from a pinched nerve in her neck — in Bahasa,  “sakit urat saraf tengkuk, saluran tersumbat.” Kaya sing dikarepake, dheweke njaluk aku RM30 kanggo tuku obat, kandha yen lara saya parah. Nalika aku nantang dheweke kanthi kandha yen dheweke muni kaya penipu internet biasa, dheweke mangsuli: As expected, she asked me for RM30 to buy medicine, saying the pain was getting worse. When I challenged her by saying that she sounded like a common internet scammer, she replied: “Otak kau scammer, bye.” Then she blocked me. Banjur dheweke mblokir aku.

 Hai selamat sore Jumaat. คุณซูจากเมดานทำงานในร้านอาหารที่ PJ เธออายุ 48 ปี มีลูก 2 คนและหย่าร้างมาหลายปีแล้ว Mbak Su from Medan works in a restaurant in PJ, a 48 years old lady. She has 2 children and been divorced for many years. "Sy tk lawa, gemok ,"

 Hai selamat petang. คุณไซค์ อมีซ จากบันติง หญิงอายุ 49 ปี บอกฉันว่าเธอเคยมีประสบการณ์ที่ภรรยาของใครบางคนเข้ามาทำร้ายเธอ เธอทำงานเป็นแม่บ้านที่สนามบิน KLIA Cik Amyz from Banting, a 49-year-old woman, told me that she had an experience where someone’s wife attacked her. She works as a cleaner at KLIA airport. "Sy dh tua x cantik and gemok u nk ke kwn dgn sy,"

 Hai salam sore. คุณฮานี หญิงอายุ 48 ปี ทำงานเป็นเจ้าหน้าที่ธุรการโรงเรียน ถูกหย่ามาเกือบ 10 ปี มีลูก 2 คน Cik Hani, a 48 yo lady works as a school clerk, been divorced for almost 10 years with 2 children. "kerani kecik," "Bln 3 ni, 10 tahun dah,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. คุณบังกาจากจาซินเป็นผู้หญิงวัย 45 ปีที่หย่าร้างมา 10 ปีแล้ว เธอมีลูกสาวสองคนและทำงานที่โรงอาหารของโรงเรียน เธอบอกฉันว่าสามีเก่าของเธอทิ้งเธอไปกับผู้หญิงคนอื่น Cik Bunga from Jasin is a 45-year-old woman who has been divorced for 10 years. She has two daughters and works at a school canteen. She told me that her ex-husband left her for another woman. "org ke 3 n die kawin dgn perempuan tu now da cerai da," "Bukan janda... anak dara tua huhu,"

 Hai selamat malam. คุณฮานา อายุ 51 ปี จากกัวลาลัมเปอร์ มีลูกสามคน เธอทำงานเป็นคนทำความสะอาดและหย่าร้างมาสองปีแล้ว Cik Hana, 51 years old, from Kuantan, has three children. She works as a cleaner and has been divorced for two years. Although her ex-husband still provides financial support for the children, she has to handle all the errands and responsibilities herself. "Sya ank 3 org pun..mcm² sya hadap..sorg²..ex hya bg duit je..yg lain sya yg urus sndri," 

 Hai selamat malam. Miss Jenny (40), from the Philippines, now resides in Miri and works as a massage therapist. She became upset when I asked about her marital status, even though she had mentioned that she has two children. “Of course I’m not a woman who just finds men and has babies with any father.” “Be careful what you say,” she warned me.

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Su77 saka Terengganu iku wanita umur 49 taun. Ing profilé, dhèwèké nyebutaké yèn dhèwèké mung golek kanca kanggo ngobrol, ora kanggo omah-omah. Cik Su77 from Terengganu is a 49-year-old woman. On her profile, she mentions that she is only looking for chatting friends, not for marriage. “Xde GG, dh tua kn.” She also said that she is still single and has never been married. She used to work in a factory but is currently jobless. She mentioned that she feels lazy to work now. I told her that usually only rich people can afford not to work. She is also slow and rather lazy in replying to my messages. "xpelah," "ye klu rajin bru bls,"

 Hai selamat malam. RATULEO from JB works as a tailor in BBU but stays in Kempas. She's 50 yo divorcee since 2020 with 5 children and 2 grandchildren. She likes to travel, for example she's been to Gunung Bromo last year.  "Thn ni lom plan nk gi mna2 sbb bz ank no 2 nk kawen,"

 Hai selamat malam. Diknor (44) from Kuantan is a widow with two children. She doesn’t like using “I–you” and prefers “saya–awak.” She wants to work but is unable to do so because she needs to send her children to and from school. "kalu saya keje sape nk antar ambik ank sekolah,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ida85, a 40-year-old divorcee from Banting, has three children: one son (19) and two daughters (9 and 7). Her ex-husband has never provided child support. "die mmg xde rasa tgjwap," "pmls," "sb tu la sy tglkn.. x thn," "bsnes sy jtuh smpi sy tgung hutg smpi skrg," "dia mna ada peduli," "dulu site sprvisr je," "pastu kne buang," "pastu xnk kje," "hrpkn nsnes sy," "lma2 hutg mkin byk sy tekann jiwa,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Amy, 50, is from Muar and has two children. She is not a single mother, but a widow. Her husband passed away after being diagnosed with a nerve condition. "Sy bukan janda, sy balu,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Pu3amanda from RTB (Rancangan Taman Belia), Bukit Changgang, Banting, is 49 years old. Her profile shows that she is fierce ( garang ) but soft-hearted. She often makes typos in her messages, even after I mentioned it to her. She said it’s because she is busy playing games on other apps. "dkt la dgn kilamg kertas dgn jotel tabung haji ti," "heee jari comel, z la dlm battle game kat appss lain," She works as a taska teacher and lives with her family. Her work starts at 11 a.m. and ends at 7 p.m. She does not own a car.