Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Arni (49 yo) of Manjung said she is going to see a doctor to have her eyes examined next Friday, 6 February. On another note, her current boyfriend — someone else’s husband from Teluk Intan — prefers to see her at night. She said she does not plan to marry him as a second wife, as she is thinking about her future.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Elyana (37 yo) is in Kampung Pencalang with her one-year-old son. Her other son, a nine-year-old, is living with her relatives in a village in Negeri Sembilan. She said she is scheduled to undergo an operation on 26 February next month for her “sakit hempedu” (gallbladder problem). She also has hepatitis ( radang hati ) and gastritis (gastrik). I wished her well and good luck with her operation.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Sharifahserry, a divorcee for 19 years, has four grown-up children and four grandchildren. She is a 56-year-old woman who has just returned from Australia. She said she is facing financial difficulties, as none of her children are willing to support her. She asked me to help find a rental house and promised to pay once she starts working after Raya. "You tolong carikn i rumah," "Tapi xde deposit," "I x kja," "Lepas raya kerja,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Ramlah, 49, from Selayang, has five grown-up children and has been divorced for over a year. She is currently not working. She told me that she is having problems with her WhatsApp number. "maaf wasp sy rosk,"

 Hai selamat malam. คุณยูนา อายุ 45 ปี มาจากอิโปห์ ตอนนี้เธอกำลังทำงานและมีวันอาทิตย์เป็นวันหยุด เธอหนัก 60 กก. สูง 153 ซม. หลังจากนั้น เธอก็ให้รูปถ่ายและ TikTok ของเธอกับฉันด้วย Cik Yuna, 45 years old, is from Ipoh. She is currently working and has Sundays off. She weighs 60 kg and is 153 cm tall. Later, she gave me her photo and her TikTok as well. "x lawa mna pn," "Tu camera je buat dia lawA... "

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Rani, 52, an old lady from Subang Jaya works as a cleaner. She has one 15 years old son and she's been divorced for 10 years. "Sapu sampah kat jln2 je," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Lina, a 47-year-old woman from Pekan Nenas, works at Kukup Golf Resort. She has two grown-up children. She told me that she is heavy and showed me her photos. "110kg,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Itazali again, from Damansara. Her first husband was a lorry driver, and their salaries were about the same, as she was working in an office. However, she supported all the household expenses from the beginning until the end of their marriage, including their children’s school expenses. "psl seks, yg 1st sbln skali pn susah, yg 2nd mmg nk je x kira sy penat atau x," Her second husband was a security supervisor, but before that he had been unemployed for two years. Once again, she supported the family. He was worse than the first husband — more violent and extremely jealous. She even had to undergo back surgery, yet he never helped with the hospital bills. They fought every day, even after having sex. "bila selesai bersama dia akn tuduh sy main ngan org lain bkn dgn dia. pdhal dia disblh sy,"

Hai selamat malam. Cik Itazali, who lives in Damansara, told me last week that she has been quite busy arranging her third son’s wedding. She works as a RELA security guard. When asked about her future husband, she replied: "xde calon,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Zie 45 years old lives in Tangkak. She's jobless and warned not to ask about her job. "X la suka sgt. Dah x la marah sgt," 

Hai selamat petang. Meknor is from Kelantan and currently lives in Larkin. She said she is in the process of applying for a divorce, and the case is still in court. She has been “gantung tak bertali” for two years. She has seven children; two of them (the oldest) live with her, while the other five younger children are in Kelantan with her husband. "Nor sewa umh gn ank n kwan," "Pembantu tuke msak,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cikgu Rosnani from Slim River is a secondary school teacher. When asked about her marital status and whether she is a single mother, she responded: "Itu rahsia ok," "Nantilah klu ros ada masa nanti ros habaq ok,"

 Hai selamat petang. Cikpuan Ila Elmy 52 yo from Beruas got 3 children and all of them still in school. The father of the kids not giving any child support.She said they're going to court this 27/1/26 for the same case. She also said she's still looking for a new husband.  "Ni yg gafal nk cari lagi," 

 Hai selamat petang. ik Lieza, 43, from Taiping, is a single mother with three children - 7, 11, & 14. She sells nasi lemak. I thought she's not going to respond when I asked how long she has been divorced. But later she replied: "bru 7 bln,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Amy, 38 years old, from Kuala Kangsar, has eight children. She has been divorced for one year. She used to work with an NGO in the aliens department. "Anak tu rezeki,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Bobby is married but separated from her husband. She's 50 years old with a couple of kids. She works as a cleaner in Pasir Gudang. She got upset when I told her that she's many kids. "kemain ckp sya anak bederet,"

 Tue, 6/1/26. Cik Elyana lives in Kampung Pencalang. She is 37 years old and stays with her one-year-old son, while her nine-year-old child lives with her mother in the village. She was divorced for the second time in March last year. She works at a restaurant near her rented house. Her first husband separated from her in 2017. But later he passed away. Her second marriage lasted only for two years when the son was 3 months old.   

 Sat, 3/1/26. Cik MCIK from Pontian is a 44-year-old single mother with two children. She said, in an angry tone, that she divorced her husband after hiring a lawyer. "fasakh cerai CONFIRM perempuan sendiri yg upah lawyer"  "bila perempuan yg upah lawyer"  "confirm perempuan yg buang lelaki jahanam tu" "sebab tu dia dlm NERAKA"

 Hai selamat petang. Cuk Roaininah, 47, from Sabak Bernam has been widow for 5 years. She has 3 children and they're still not married yet. "Ank sy 3 2lki 1 ppm 2 dh keje 1 masih bljr,"  "Umur ank sy 31 29 21 semua Belum khwin lgi, "