Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rose Ros, 46, is from Seberang Perai Tengah, Penang. She is originally from Medan and has been working as a factory worker for the past three years. She has four children, two of whom are already married. She shared that she had a boyfriend about two years ago, but decided not to continue the relationship after realizing that he was someone else’s husband. She also mentioned that the man, who was Chinese, wanted her to convert to his religion. I told her that in Indonesia, interfaith marriages are quite common, as long as both people are sincere in their relationship. "Orang Indonesia banyak mcm itu," "Tapi saya tak mau ngorban kan agama," "Tak semua sama,"

 Hai selamat noon. Mbak Delia (47) is living in JJ now. She’s from Sumatra and has not been working for the past month. When I offered her a job cleaning my rented house, she said she has never worked as a house cleaner but can do mopping only. "Iya mau krja tapi yg hari2 ada, klo cuma 1x aja besok ngangur lgi y sama ja,"

 Hai selamat afternoon. Cik Jun, 50 years old, works as a cleaner at KipMall supermarket in Tampoi. Tomorrow is her off day because it’s Christmas Day. Acturally she's working as a wedding accessories promoter at KipMall and Giant Tampoi. She originally is from Mersing. She's a single mom and has 4 children. She warned that she doesn't like people calling her at midnight after 11.30pm. She prefers those who can wake up early in the morning for her future imam. “Bleh la jmpa.” But later, I realized she was actually giving me a warning. "Lau sy ckp ,M sti u x nk jumpa  sy," What she meant was: "Kite bleh jumpa Tp sy x nk check in hotel tau, "

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Sofieya, 45, a widow with 2 children. She works as an auditor in PJ. "x paham lah apa u ckp," 

 Hai selamat tmalam. Cik Mus (50) from Damansara is an Indonesian TKI who does not have a work permit and is afraid to travel far by bus. She said she has been through four marriages before, and all of her husbands were Indonesian. She showed me photos of her first three ex-husbands. Note. I confused because last time she said she's a widow but today she said she's been married four times.  Link . Then later I asked her again about her ex husbands.  "Gak ganteng la Ngam Ngam," - talking about them. No. 1: Her ex-husband married two more women, but she was his first wife. No. 2: A bank officer from whom she borrowed money to support her children. No. 3: A lorry driver who was infected with COVID and passed away. No. 4: A businessman whom she married secretly without the consent of his first wife. Later, when the first wife found out, they divorced.

  Sat, 20/12/25. Cik Arni, 49 years old, has one daughter and lives in a rented house. She has just completed her iddah period after her second divorce. Her first husband passed away in 2018 due to dengue contracted at his workplace, and since then she has been receiving SOCSO benefits of RM2,600 per month. Her first marriage was held in Thailand due to her husband didn't want to tell his first wife.  Regarding her second ex-husband, she said he abused her due to his bad habit of online gambling. He also used to hit her. "Dia sebut talak tiga kat kawan2 dia,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Mus a 50 years old lady is staying in Damansara KL. She's an Indonesian working as a caregiver. She's a widow and no working permit. She's afraid to take a long distance express bus. "Paspor ada, masih hidup," "Permit sudah mati,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Shera, 42 years old, is from Penang. On her profile, she warned that she doesn’t want scandals and is “anti-buaya.” But not long after, she gave me her WhatsApp number. She told me about her life story. She’s originally from Baling, Kedah, and has been an orphan since she was a baby. She has a brother, but she never met him until she was about to get married. Before marriage, she was very independent — she had her own house, three cars, and two motorcycles. Her ex-husband initially worked in a factory, while she was a lecturer at UM in KL. Later, her ex-husband joined the PDRM, and they were transferred from KL to Penang. At first, they lived happily. But in late 2022, her ex-husband developed psychological issues, became hot-tempered, and started hitting the family. She and her children also experienced mysterious illnesses — blood coming out from their noses and bodies. Doctors eventually gave up and advised her to seek traditional healing. After the divor...

 Hai selamat malam.  Mbak Eryn, 45, now lives and works in Kota M, Johor. She’s an Indonesian lady from Cirebon, West Java. She said she has been in Muar for three years already, working in a Chinese household. She also has a valid work permit. Then, suddenly, we didn’t chat for a month. However, a couple of days ago, we started chatting again. But she likes to call me ‘sayang,’ which honestly makes me feel a bit awkward. "Sayang kan bukan berarti cintra akan tetapi silahturohim saling menyayangi sesama manusia.. Begitu kawan,"

 Hai selamat malam. ราตรีสวัสดิ์ Rātrī s̄wạs̄di̒. Cik Cinta told me at the beginning that she’s from Kedah. She’s 44 years old and is now a single mother. She was actually born and raised on Langkawi Island. She also said that she has mixed Siamese heritage. When I jokingly said that since she has Thai blood, she must have a hot temper and know Muay Thai, she responded: "Blh la setakat nk MKN pasir,"

Hai selamat malam. คุณอิซาห์ อายุ 55 ปี ปัจจุบันอาศัยอยู่ที่พันดาน จายา อัมปัง เธอทำงานเป็นพนักงานส่งเสริมการขาย แต่ก่อนหน้านี้เธอเคยทำงานเป็นเจ้าหน้าที่ธุรการที่ร้านจาเกล Cik Isah, 55 years old, now lives in Pandan Jaya, Ampang. She works as a promoter, but previously she worked as a clerk in Jakel shop.  "atuk wong jowo keturunan wali songo," But later she block me for an apparent reason. Lol.

 Hai selamat tengahari. คุณเอ็นดุนอายุ 43 ปี มาจากเชราส์ กรุงกัวลาลัมเปอร์ เธอมีลูกหนึ่งคน อายุ 15 ปี เธอเป็นผู้หญิงอีบันที่หย่าร้างเมื่อปีที่แล้ว Cik Endun is 43 years old and from Cheras, Kuala Lumpur. She has one 15-year-old child. She is an Iban lady who got divorced last year. "Au dh ka gawa dulu ku," which i dont understand the meaning. 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Linda, 44 years old, lives in S Town and has three children. At first, she told me she was driving a Grab car, but later I realized she was actually a pak wan cha (teksi sapu), transporting sick dialysis patients. She brings her son along because there is no one else to take care of him right now. Currently, her car has broken down, so she is using her friend’s car to do the transportation. "Awak ada kereta lebih ke,"