Siri Bercakap Dengan Janda

Hai selamat malam.  Cik Hani, 49, a cooker from Kluang. She likes to be on holiday, doing recreational, ie, netball, badminton, hiking. She's single mom with 5 kids. 

 Hai salam sore. Cik Sheda, 47, from Puchong originally from Perak. She works as a clerk admin and has 2 children. She said about her ex-husband: "Tiada persefahaman dan tiada perasaan syg tu,"  "Dulu technician pastu quit," "Pastu forex tp xjd,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Adel, 46, lives in Megah Ria. She's originally from Jawa Tengah and comes here with a visitor visa, no working permit. She'll be back to Batam next 5th May and come back 2 days later.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cikpuan Aisha, 40, from Kedah. Surprisingly she said that she's someone wife. "sy isteri org,:

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Nur Afiqah, 32, from Muar, now stay in Kuantan. She's been divorced for 5 years and has 4 children. "just kawan," posted on her profile.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik NA, 41, from Sungkai Perak. She has one child and works as a cleaner. "sapu sampah,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Anie, 48, lives in Bandar Baru Salak Tinggi Sepang now. She has 2 children and doing own business. She's been divorced for 15 years and her hometown is in Terengganu. "X blik thn ni,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Yuyu, 45, is a single mother and has 1 kid. She's upset when i told her that her taking care of her sicked mother is a jobless.  "ouh kalau kita jaga orang tua kita sakit dikira penganguran ye," 

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Atie, 46, from Bukit Tinggi Klang. She's still someone's wife. 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Zana, 51, a widow for 3 years from Kedah.  She has 7 children.  "rezeki kan tuh," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Anis, 46, from Tampoi JB is not working. She has 4 children. She's been divorced for 16 years. "u tgok profile I,. nmp 1 ada tujuan ke,"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Masinari, 58, from Beranang, Selangor. She is still married and has seven children. She teaches the Quran in her neighborhood. “Org ni senang mesra.” She complained that her husband is sexually impotent due to his diabetic condition. He does not want to take medicine to help with the problem. Now she is really upset and frustrated with the situation. "Sbb suami ni mati pucuk 9 tahun dah," 

 Hai selamat sore. Mbak Asma Rani, 42, from Medan now stays in Kulai. She works as a house maid for 2 months now. She has 3 children and been divorced for 10 years already. "Jaga anak dan beres rumah,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cikpuan Maria, 42, from Pekan Nenas. She works as a general worker, just like her husband. She has two children. One is still in school in Form 4, and the other is with her mother in Indon. She likes to use voice notes. Later, she told me that she already has an IC because of her marriage to her local husband.

 Hai selamat pagi.  Cik Noni, 43, from Rembau. She has one child and works as an assistant admin at KKM (Kementerian Kesihatan). She's been divorced for 6 years.  "xyh citer..nti swing mood i," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Mama Has, 47, from Larkin. She surprisingly gave me her phone number without me asking. At first, I thought she was Indonesian, and she became angry with me. She kept calling me earlier while I was in class. Unable to get some peace of mind later, I blocked her WhatsApp and her matching profile.

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Yuni, 33, from Deli Serdang, Medan, Sumatera. She has one child aged 6 years old and a widow for 3 years now. She works in a clinic.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik M, 35, from Penang. She's still single, never married. She posted on her profile - mother of cats, doesn't like caterpillar men, she's only working as an assistant admin. "Tak kahwin lagi macam mana nak main kan,"

 Hai selamat siang. Mbak Lyn (SS), 45, from Tanjung Balai, Asahan, Sumatera. But now she stays in Batam for the last 6 months.  She works helping her friend on her culinary business in Batam. She's been divorced for 2 years and will process the divorce letter after lebaran. She has on daughter aged 10 years old. "Habis lebaran ini mau urus surat cerai nya,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak IRatuazzh, 35, from Nagoya Batam. She has one child and been divorced for 5 years. Her last contract just expired after 2 years. "Skrang saya lagi istirahat dulu,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Jun, 30, from Sepang, said that she is someone’s second wife. However, she complained that her husband cannot satisfy her sexually. Her husband is now 63 years old and is becoming ill. "Semua x ok.. makin dapt sakit lain adalh,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Aimy, 43, from Pengerang. She has 3 grown up children. She works for a subcon company. She said her kampung is at Seberang Perak, Teluk Anson. "Kalau perasan nampak gulam rasul,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Izan, 44, from Kota Tinggi. She has 5 children and 3 grandchildren. She works as a housekeeper. She's from Felda (secret). "x mainlah indon," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ana, 39, from Jasin Melaka. She's a someone's wife and has 4 children. "bila ms saya jnda, saya wife orgn,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Noor, 52, from Muar. She's a single mother with 7 children. She's been divorced for 4 years now. She works as a consultant for property and bankruptcy case.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Naj, 47, from Kajang Utama. She has 3 children and originally from Kelantan. She's still a housewife now.  She said she's no pic as her phone's camera is broken. "dulu ada saya dh padam tkt jmp kt anK sbb anK suka pijm tlpn,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Esther, 45, from Pontianak. A non muslim lady seems friendly. She's been divorced since 2018. She has one child. "Sy kristen 🙏," 

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Farida, 52, from Baloi Batam has no passport to travel oversea. She has 6 children and her husband passed away 8 years ago while her youngest sfill 8 months old. "Mangka nya mendekati monopos,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Sweaties (her nickname), 52, works as a kuih (cookies) seller. She has 2 grown up boys. "Line slow,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Tiara, 48, from Shah Alam. She has 6 children and been single mother for 4 years. She's an admin. We've exchanged photos. "pink tu," 

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Lya (nickname - Hazelnut Latte), 40, from Taman Melati Gombak. She works in an indoor playground. She's still someone's wife. She's been married for 16 years and no children. "So setiap org journey x sma,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Ieda, 51, from Kajang is using nickname SapoLakNi. She works as a Finance Manager and lives in Cheras. She's been divorced for 6 years with 5 children. "bukan mudah nk terima org luar especially anak2,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Izan, 50, from Terengganu. She works in a government office. She originally from Kelantan and doesn't want to tell about her kids.  She's been divorced for 4 years. At first she doesn't want to tell the reason if the divorce.  "Ye betul. Isu penyondol.. Tutup," 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Tina, 40, from Batam is a lady Grab riding bike. She has 2 children aged 8 and 18 years old. She's been divorced for 8 years. She felt uneasy when I asked her many questions.  "Nak kasih bntuan kah,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Azella, 50, from Kluang works as a private nurse. She has 5 children, ie 4 boys aged 27, 26, 22, 20 and one girl aged 14. She has been divorced for 3 years. She's been late in replying my messages.  "xde line ..hujn lebat disini,"  "internet X ok," She gave me her phone number 018769*****

 Hai selamat siang. Mbak Dewi, 35, from Batam now works in Singapore as a bakery of cake shop. She makes tirmasu and dubai chocolate. She has 3 children and been divorced for 3 years. "kita mau berteman atau nikah," after I asked the reason of the divorce.

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Icha, 37, from Tanjung Pinang, Bintan. She used to have 4 children, but one passed away. She's been divorced for 5 months. She works as a cleaner.

 Hai selamat malam. Che Ta, 52, from Terengganu. She has 4 children, aged 22, 20, 18, 16 - 3 boys and 1 girl. She's a widow and been married for 26 years. She plans going to Batam this May.

 Hai selamat malam. Lady no. 1 -Mimi, 38, from Medan. She's doing small business, has 4 children and been divorce for 4 years. Lady no. 2 - Rinjany, 45, from Batam. She has 2 children.  Lady no 3 - Jun Klin, 49 from Indragiri Hilir, Tembilahan. She is a single parent. She has 5 grown up children who are already working now. Lady no 4 - Kurnia, 38, from Pontianak. She is jobless. She has one child and been divorce for 13 years. Lady no. 5 - Cinta, 41, from Gowa, Sulsel (Sulawesi Selatan). She works in a private sector. She has 3 children. Lady no. 6 - Fatimah, 45, from Pontianak. She has 3 grown up children and has been divorced for 6 years. She said she's jobless now. Lady no. 7 - Ibun, 45, from Pekanbaru. She has 2 children and been divorced since 2015. She's doing online seller.

 Hai selamat malam. Lady No. 1 – Lia , 50, from Bengkalis. She works as a cook in a restaurant. She has four children and has been divorced for four years. Lady No. 2 – Norma , 48, from Kota Pontianak. Lady No. 3 – Fitri , 45, from Batam. Lady No. 4 – Zahra , 35, from Kulaijaya. She is originally from Batam. She has three children and works at a spa as a masseuse. She gave me her phone number. Lady No. 5 – Emak , 48, from Bangka Belitung, Sumatera Selatan. She is currently unemployed. She has three grown-up children and has been divorced since 2017. Lady No. 6 – Sri Nani , 45, from Tanjung Pinang, Bintan. We had a big argument because she assumed that Pulau Bintan is a separate city. I told her that Tanjung Pinang is on Bintan Island, but she was adamant and did not accept it. Lady No. 7 – Kanaya , 43, from Batam. She works as a café waitress and poses attractively in her profile. She is looking for a serious man who is loyal, patient with her job, and not the jealous type. She sta...

 Hai selamat malam. Lady no. 1 - Naya, 45, from Karimun. She used to come and works at Kg Melayu JB.  She has 3 children and been divorce for 5 years. Lady no. 2 - Maharani, 41 from Batam. Lady no. 3 - Amel, 50, from Kota Medan. She has 2 children. She works at home. Lady no. 4 - Siti Fatimah, 43, from Baloi Permai, Batam. She doesn't like liar.  She originally from Lampung. She has 3 children who live with their father in Lampung. Lady no. 5 - Alika, 40 from JB. Lady no. 6 - Veve, 36, from Cilegon, Banten. She's been divorce for 3 years and no children. She works as a caterer. Lady no. 7 -  Azizah, 47, from Batam. She helps her sister preparing cookies. She has 1 child who still in college.  Her husband passed away 3 years ago. Lady no. 8 - Fatimah, 45, from Kota Pontianak. Her house is not far from Tugu Khatulistiwa.  Lady no. 9 - Hani, 42, from Lima Puluh Kota, Padang, Sumatera. She has 3 children and been divorce for 2 years now. Lady no. 10 - Hanny, 52...

 Hai selamat malam.  Lady no. 1 - Icaa, 47, from Batam but originally from Pekanbaru. She said her mother used to work in KL for 16 years but she's already passed away. She works in Batam in a shop. Lady no. 2 - Yani, 43, from Batam. She has 2 pairs of children and been divorce for 6 years. She works as a wedding reception singer only. Lady no. 3 - Rosde Yanti, 53, from Bengkong, Batam. She has 3 children who are already married. She's been divorce for 4 years. Lady no. 4 - Reta pa, 50, from Pekanbaru. Lady no. 5 - Viona Azra, 36, from Batam.  She works as a chef assistant at her relative house. She has one child, She's been divorce for 13 years. Lady no. 6 - Sopia, 56, from Kota Bandung. She gave me her phone no +6208552079**** but I never called her. She said her uncle is in Batu Pahat. Lady no. 7 - Cora, 46, from Deli Serdang, Medan.  Lady no. 8 - Yuni, 33, from Deli Serdang, Medan. She's a widow for 3 years with one child aged 6 years old. Lady no. 9 - Musleha, 4...

 Hai selamat malam. Lady no. 1 - Asnelia, 53, from Payakumbuh,Padang, Sumbar. She has 4 children and now jobless. Lady no. 2 - Nia, 34 from Batam. She's jobless now and been divorce for 9 years. She helps her mother selling food. Lady no. 3 - Syarifah Aini, 48, from Tanjung Pinang, Bintan. On her postings, she seldom opens the apps, doesn't like using telephone, but chatting only, asking to read her profile, if you call me "gua", "dek," "bunda", doesn't like with questions will be blocked, and to be matured when talking.  Lady no. 4 - Sri Mulyani, 51, from Jambi. Lady no. 5 - Aida, 44, from Batam. She can cook and her hobby is savings. She has 2 children. She's been working in Kuala Lumpur and now back to Indon since her mother doesnt like her to work there. She also worked in Singapore before. Lady no. 6 - Aisyah, 42, likes sincerity. She's from Medan and been to Thailand, Malaysia and Singapore for holiday. Lady no. 7 - Diana, 37 from...

 Hai selamat malam. Last Wednesday I visited Batam Island Indonesia. Lady no. 1 -Mimy Gemoy, 45 in JB now but from Tebing Tinggi, Medan. Lady no. 2 - Nanda, 43, from Pasir Gudang. She works as a massager. She said she massage bekam is rm150 for 2 hours. Lady no. 3 - Indah, 49, from Batam. Lady no. 4 - Naimah, 56, from Batam. She has 4 children, 2 pairs. She's been divorced for 4 years. She said likes doing exercises, going to gym. Lady no. 5 - Ria JmgR, 46 from Batam. She has one child. She likes to chat. Lady no. 6 - Yani, 49, from Cilacap, Jawa Tengah. She said she's fasting today. She has one child and been divorced for 8 years.

 Hai selamat malam. Yesterday I visited Batam Island Indonesia. Lady no. 1 - Rindiani, 32 from Ogan Komering Ulu, Tani, Palembang.  Lady no. 2 - Dedew, 44, from Karimun. She said she used to travel to Malaysia via Kukup town. Lady no. 3 - Mala, 49, from Tangerang Selatan, BSD Serpong Timur.  Lady no. 4 - Az Zahra, 30, from Asahan Medan.  Lady no. 5 - Key, 49, from Batam. Lady no. 6 - Su liana (Solana), 45, from JB. She said on her profile post: orang cantik tidak selalu baik, tetapi orang baik akan selalu cantik. She lives in Kg Melayu Majidee JB. Note. This lady got another account. She works in a factory and been divorce since 2012.

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Gy, 45, from Pengerang, is married. Her husband works as a fisherman. She has four children, aged 20, 18, 17, and 15. On her profile status, she wrote that she is only open for chatting, not for scandals or “being a caterpillar.” She also mentioned that anyone who likes seafood can contact her, as she hosts a house raft for fishing. "sy jugak meniaga brg2 hasil laut,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Hanny, 52, from Seremban, works at a factory. She has three children and two grandchildren. Her husband passed away three years ago. “Sejam je,” she told me, referring to the distance between our places.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ctie, 42, from Penang and works as a childcare of her sister at her house. She has one child of her own and has been a single mother for 13 years. She's originally from JB. When asked about her photo, she responded: "xda," "nk knl x pyh la tgok pic," "knl2 gitu dh la," Ironically, when checking upon her profile I saw her photos. I just wornder why she say she doesn't want to share her photo.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Eida, 42, from Kampung Melayu JB and surprisingly she said hi first in the chat. She is a widow for the last 3 years and has no children. She's been married for 15 years. Now she works as a Grab driver. When asked whether she can go and enter Singapore, she responded: "tk lah," "dlm jb je,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Zie, 45, from Membakut Sabah. She's never been married and works as a clerk. I reckon she's unfriendly and wonder why she's still single. "Saya ni tak blh stress ada mslh kesihatan,"

 Hai selamat pagi. ik Emma, 45, from Puchong, has been a single mother for quite some time. She has six children and two grandchildren. She takes care of children and babies at her house. "Lame dh janda,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cikpuan Deanna, 43, from Kedah. She has 3 children, and been divorced for 3 years. She works as a cleaner. "org mana ni," "bhs klasik,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Honeyza, 40, from Kg Pasir, Hulu Kelang. She said she's been a single mother for 13 years. She has one boy aged 11 years. She's doing some business selling cookies. I told her that it's been a long time not to be touched by a men, referring to her 13 years of being single mom. "Haah," - she confirmed.

 Hai selamat malam. Mek WI (Wanita Itu), 56, from Kota Bharu, has been divorced four times. Later, she told me that her name is Noni. She has two children. "u boleh terima?"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Mary, 35, from Kuching works as a cleaner. She has 3 children and been divorce for 8 years already. She is a Bidayuh lady. "mana tau u malu ada kwn kja cleaner,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Kashaa Liyana, 49,  from Damansara has 3 children. She has been divorce from 4 years now. She works as a cleaner. She originally from Sarawak and married to a Selangor man. "mjanda dh 4y,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Shima, 39, from Ipoh and works as factory worker. She has 2 children and been divorce for a year. Actually, we've not chatted for quite some times since last October.  "mmg xjauh pun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cikpuan Lulu, 46, works but never tells her specific job is. Her husband works in a food center. They have 3 children. "kat dp saya tulis dah isteri org," "Aisssh parah nie!"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik CT (her nickname - Sayap Terluka), 45, from Kulai has been divorced for the last three years. She works as a clerk and has 3 children.  "pggl ct je," Later she gave me her photo after I requested it. " biasa2 je awk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hanya Mimpi (her nickname), 47, from Kota Kinabalu Sabah, has been divorced since last year. She has three children and works at a food centre. Her name is Mira. One of the reasons for the divorce was her stepson’s rude behaviour towards her. She recalled that once, during Ramadan, her stepson hit her in front of the neighbours. "Alasan kedua mgkin jdoh tu smpi sna je,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aishikin, 52, from Pontian, has six children and six grandchildren. Her husband passed away last month. She asked for my photo first. I told myself that from now on, whoever asks first should send her photo first. She asked three times before finally giving up on me. “ermm x PE lah klu x boleh,” Later, I sent her my cartoon photo, but she did not like it. She wanted to see a real photo of me. After some persuasion, she eventually sent me a photo of herself wearing a niqab.

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Liyenni, 43, from Medan, now works in KL. She works as a caregiver, looking after her grandmother in Medan. She has no children and has been divorced for 22 years. That is quite a long time. However, her statements are quite confusing for me — perhaps because of differences in culture and communication.

 Hai selamat malam. Mommy Aikha, 44, from Kedah is a single mother with 3 children. She works in a government sector.

 Hai selamat petang. Cikgu Bidadari, 44, is a widow who just lost her husband 2 years ago. She has 2 children as shown on her profile.

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Ija, 43, from Kulim, is still single and has never been married. I found her phone number when I checked our chat messages again. It had been shared a few weeks earlier. So today, I sent her a message through the WhatsApp app. "Siapa yea,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Hana, 48, from Pasir Gudang works in a nursery (pengasuh) and still single. "yes awak saya kerja jaga anak orng" But later she confirmed her age is 38, instead of 48 as per her profile. "yes awak umur saya 38,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Atie, 48, from Bukit Rimau, Shah Alam, is still single at this age. She works as a tailor. When I asked for her photo, she sent me a recent one of herself wearing a niqab. "mmng sy pakai niab," But later somehow after my persuasion, she gave me her photo without niqab.

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Laili, 20, shown her age was 55 on her profile. At first it seems confused to me. She's still single and not working at the moment. Suddenly she gave me her phone number without me asking for it. "Saya single," "Umur 20" "Tk kejee," Then later she asked me for rm10. Aha, it's a scam! "tf la sikit," - so I blocked her immediately.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Icha Aza from Klang has a daughter. She works at a snooker center.  She's been a single mother for 5 years.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aza, 49, has 4 grown-up children and they're all already working. She's been a single mother for 17 years. She works in a government sector.

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Dea, 45, from Surabaya, Jawa Timur, works in Batu Pahat as a domestic helper. She has three children. She became upset when I asked whether she was a divorcee. But she said she was divorced once with her first husband. “Memang saya cakap janda????” I apologised after she clarified that she is still someone’s wife. However, her current husband is in Indonesia and, according to her, is lazy to work because he feels the pay is not worth it. "lek sak iki sik dadi bojone uwong tapi mboh terus opo ora Wong kurang tanggung jawab, males," "bayarane Ra sesuai blas," Note. I also saw one of her posts - "terkadang istri bisa jadi pengemis,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rita, 42, a cleaner from Klang Jaya. She has 2 children and has been divorce for 2 years. Originally she's from Padang, Indon. "dulu saya lm dekat Malaysia ini saya balik kampung,"

 Hai selamat malam. ik Aie, 45, from Terengganu, is not working and stays at home. She has six children. After the divorce four years ago, she did some small business. "lps cerai berjual sekejap,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Wadah, 43, from Kuching, She has 2 children and works as a cleaner. "xcakp pun sya janda, mana tauk?"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Mala, 42, from Klang and works in a factory. She has 2 children. She was surprised that I guessed her as a divorced single mom. "sya dh kwin dan bercerai tk kan nk mengaku ank dara pula heeeerr,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Lynn, 47, from Kota Kinabalu, has been a single mother for 12 years and has four children. She is currently not working; her last job was as a catering manager. She likes to talk a lot, and it feels like there is some chemistry between us. She told me that her mother is Chinese, and her father sent them to a Chinese school. There were no Islamic teachings during their school days in the States they're living in. Later, she gave me her WhatsApp number. "boleh je bercinta jarak jauh kn,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik CT, 43, from Tawau, is a single mother looking for a serious relationship. She works as a teacher and has four children. Since 2022, all of them have been staying with her ex-husband. "2023 baru declare cerai,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Aini, 43, from Kulim, works in a factory at Kulim Hi-Tech.  She likes watching Korean movies and uses a WiFi connection shared with her brother next door. Later, she warned me not to talk dirty. "Sembang biasa ok jgn over sgt," She told me that she has no children. Her ex-husband is gay. They were married for six years. "Dah jgn tya dah psal dy sbb sy nk tutup buku lma,"

 Hai salam pagi. Cikpuan Zila, 41, from Muar is a wife and has 2 children. She's a nurse (misi) that reminds me of my old girlfriend with big breasts. "u buat pe dgn boobs besar nya tu," When we were chatting, the conversation became slightly awkward. I felt a bit uncomfortable continuing without knowing more about her, especially since she was reluctant to share her photo. I jokingly said, “kawan dalam kegelapan,” and after that, she became quiet. But later surprisingly and finally she submitted her lovely photo. A very nice lady of someone's wife. 

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Lia, 43, from Pekan has 3 children. She's not working now and said that her mother is supporting her financially. She just been divorced for 2 months. "blom habis eddah," - i told her.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Nana, 43, from Sabak Bernam. She has 2 children, works as a chef and been divorced for 2 years. "cari kawan sembang," Later, she sent me a photo of herself. She told me that her weight is 77 kg and that she does not like sewing or tailoring clothes like other women do. "memasak tu mmg kje sya, traveling klu ade ongkos ok gk, bercinta klu dpt lelaki yg berguna, membebel slu pda ank,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Ryanie, 53, from Kota Damansara is a single mom with one son.  She mentioned that she's looking for true love, not for fun, looking for someone who can into sincere relationship.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Rosliza, 39, from Port Dickson is a nursery teacher. She has 1 child aged 15 years old. "Lau da kata umur dia 15 tahun da tentnya seorang je anak sy,"

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Anna, 46, from Batu Pahat, has two grown-up children. She is now in JB and works in wholesale ladies’ accessories. Ironically, she has never heard of the well-known nasi beriani Benteng. She has been divorced since 2013 and is still afraid to enter a long-term relationship due to her past experiences. "Sy kerja biasa je kuli,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cikpuan Ira, 45, from Hulu Perak is still a someone's wife. She has 5 children and works as a clerk. Her husband works as grass cutter machine contractor. "pasal pa dok tgh jalan,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Anne, 38, from Keramat KL is widow and has one child. She's late in replying my messages.

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Zee, 41, from Teluk Panglima Garang. She has a tiktok account and all them showing her driving her beloved car - Mercedes Benz.

 Hai selamat bulan ramadan for muslim. Cik Faz, 44, lives in Tangkak. She is still single and takes care of her mother at home. Although she has never been married, she has been engaged twice. She said she used to work in the construction industry, in a company owned by her brother-in-law. She resigned five years ago. She has 11 siblings and is now staying at home with her sister and her brother, who is in a long-distance relationship with his wife. At first, she was reluctant to give me her photo. "sy x brani nk bg gbr yg pnuh,"

 Hai selamat tengah malam. Tomorrow marks the beginning of the fasting month. Cik Syah, 39, from Tumpat, is single. She was still awake at 1:30 a.m. when she said hi to me on Messenger. She seems friendly, which makes me wonder why she is still not married at this age. "umur 39 andartu," "i single," 

 Hai selamat petang. Cik permaisuri, 46, from Thailand but now resides in Pahang. She has 6 children and now doing lemak lemak business. "suka gurau ye..." 

 Hai selamat petang. Cik Yat, 47, from Kuala Kangsar, used to work as a teacher. She has six children and now living with some of them in KK. "Anak saya 6 orang. 2 saya jaga. 2 bekas suami jaga. Seorang meninggal. Seorang dah nikah." She said she is from Desa Perwira, JB, and revealed that she has been married and divorced four times. " No1 13 tahun No2 7 tahun No3 3 tahun No4 10 bulan" She took early retirement from a government school after being diagnosed with a mental illness.

 Hai good evening. Cik Ayu, 55, a cooker from Teluk Intan. She told me that she has 6 children after I asked her so many times.  She asked my photo but later she gave me first her photo since I insisted that she should as she requested it first.  "nh ambk,"

 Hai good afternoon. Cik Zan, 59, from Kuantan, confirmed that she has already gone through menopause due to her age. She has been divorced for seven years and has five children, three of whom are already married. Later, she gave me her WhatsApp number without me asking. "tak kerja," "makan tidur,"

 Hai good afternoon. Mbak Lisa, 43, is from Kajang and originally from Medan. She works as a house helper and cannot go out easily. She arrived from Indon four months ago and will return next year. "Aku kerja jdi pembantu aku keluar ruma anya buang sampah, mudah2an aku tidk kenal sama cowo Bangladesh,"

 Hai good morning. Cik Liesa, 37, from Kuantan, is a single mother with four children. She has been divorced for two years. Her ex-husband has custody of all the children, as she said her work requires her to move around and not stay in one place. "I kje x stempat,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Amy, 52, from Kuching is a single mom for 10 years. She has 6 children - 4 girls and 2 boys. She works as a general worker. "Last year sy ada pegi selangor,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Liya, 52, from Indonesia now works at Bandar Tasik Selatan at a child care center. She has one child and been divorced for 5 years. "jaga baby,"

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Gendia, 48, from JB originally from Lampung, Sumatera. She has one child and been divorced for quite some time. "Sy lama jd single mama,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Intan, 45, from Seksyen 32 Shah Alam. She has 4 children and works in a factory. When asked about how long she's been divorced, she replied: "blh laa,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Za, 47, from Klang is a widow with 4 children. Her husband, 52, passed away 5 years already due to heart attack. He was a lorry driver. Later she wants to have my number. "tapi sya x suka vc tu jer,"

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Lia, 44, is from Meru and originally from Semarang, Jawa Tengah, Indonesia. Even though she is a Muslim, she now works for a Chinese casket company. She has two children and has been divorced for three years. "kj keranda bg,"

 Hai salam siang. Cik Haniz, 44, from Rawang. She has 5 children and been a long time single mother. "kerja biasa je,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Miya, 41, from Penang is a single mom for a year. She has 3 children. When asked about her photo, she said she's not pretty. "Kalau awak cari cantik bukan saya," Eventually she told me that she works as a cleaner and is on leave until Sunday.

 Hai selamat pagi. Sawadee ton choi.  สวัสดีตอนเช้า Ms. Mali, 48, is from Nakhon Ratchasima, Thailand, and has two children. She works at a salon in Seremban. She has been divorced since 2020, during the COVID period. She said she came here directly under the salon company, not through an agent. "I came here to work and earn money,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Mbak Ida Aqilutt, 39, from Surabaya, now works at a salon in Bandar Baru Ampang. She has been divorced for eight years and has one child. She said she is looking for a man who can provide for her every month. I told her that it sounds like a dream — nobody is perfect. "Aduh pantas semua orang pada kabur,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik RoseRos, 54, from Ayer Molek is a single mother with 4 children. She works as a clerk. She said she will turn 55 this year, and I told her that currently she is still 54. "ikut tahun 45," "sng kire,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ella, 44, a single mother from Kuching, gave me her WhatsApp number last week and said she wanted to chat with me. She called me this morning while I was still in bed, and we talked briefly. "Abg suka dengan sy ke," "Jawab jujur,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Hani, 45, from Klang, has been a widow for one year and has five children. She said all her children are already grown up. Her husband passed away after being diagnosed with several illnesses, including a stroke and kidney problems. I jokingly told her that he must have passed away because of her cooking skills — the food must have been too delicious. "Semua org pndai masak," Not everyone know how to cook - I told her that.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Sweety (Manis), 40, from Teluk Intan has been single mom for 5 years. She has 5 children and they are supporting her now. She's not working and her husband passed away. He is 4 years younger than her. "muda dri saya 5 taun,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Anje, 40, from Batu Pahat, is a single mother with two children. She currently works as a cook. "ex curang ngan pmpuan indon,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Qaseh, 49, is a single mother from Sarikei. She has 2 children. "dekat je.. ddok ats pmaidani terbang," - when I told her that she's living far far away from me. She used to work as a hotel cleaner.

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Faezah, also known as Cik RATULEO, 54, from Kempas, works as a tailor. She has been married three times and is now divorced. Her first husband passed away after 18 years of marriage, leaving her with three children. Her second marriage ended in divorce after six years, and she has two children from that marriage. Her third marriage lasted only five months before she divorced him. It was a tragic experience for her, as his children and her daughter were constantly fighting after the marriage. They blamed each other. "It's like being scammed," "I had to pay everything from maskahwin, even groceries!" 

 Hai selamat tengahari. Cik Chombie, 50, from Manjung, is a single mother with four children and three grandchildren. On her profile, she wrote that she spends her time folding clothes, cooking, sleeping, eating, and doing nothing interesting. "p tdo la dulu sy a keje lg nk buat,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Julia, 47, is from Medan and works from home. I told her that she is living quite far away. She responded that it only takes about 45 minutes by flight. I then mentioned that many illegal migrants (PATI — pendatang tanpa izin ) fail to make it to the shores when traveling by boat. "kesiannye,"

 Hai selamat malam. Cik Honey (Hanie), 51, from Sungai Petani is a single mom with 4 children. The last time she replied my messages was on September last year.  But recently she sent message saying she's on vacation in Thailand, ie Danok and Hatyai with her friends. "semuga bahagia selalu utk awk,"

 Hai selamat malam. Ms Rose, 44, from Zimbabwe sent me messages.When I told her that I suspect she was a scammer, she gets upset. But later she cool down and we start chatting like normal people. She said she's self employed. She's a widow, her husband passed away last year. She has 2 daughters, aged 20 and 15. We exchanged our photos, but she wants to see my latest picture. I asked her to wait. "will wait for it..."

 Hai selamat malam. Mbak Carien, 40, works in KL as housekeeping. She originally from Medan and has 1 daughter only. She's been divorced for 16 years. Sixteen long years. "Tp dah tinggal di Batam,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Azwa, 49, from KL, has been a widow for six years. Her husband passed away due to a heart attack. He was 10 years older than her. She is originally from Batu Pahat. She works as a banker and has three children, all of whom are already working. "duit bank & customer bkn i," 

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Liena, 47, has 7 children and been divorced for 3 years. She's from Port Klang and works as security for a factory. "Sorg je dgn saya," "lain semua dgn ayah dia," "dengan dia tu semua dah keje,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Eida Aryiel, 39, from Perlis, has five children. She has been a single mother since September 2025. She does not want to share the reason why she divorced her husband. "panjang kisah,"

 Hai selamat siang. Cik Meli, 33, from Tatau Bintulu and works in a garden. She has one child. She's been for number of years. "Dah ada beberapa tahun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Ila, 51, from Beranang, works as a cleaner and has been a single mother for two years. She has three children. She said the reason for their divorce was her ex-husband’s jealousy. He accused her of having relationships with other men, even though she said she did not do so. "sy kawan dgn lelaki tapi tak jumpa pun.. tapi berkali2 dia tuduh sy zina.."

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik CS (Tia), 45, is a primary school teacher in Sibu. She teaches Malay and Iban. She loves reading, cooking, listening to music, flowers, watching dramas and movies, and butterflies. She has three children and has been divorced for three years. "sekolah kat sibu. beritahu pun, bukan awak tau pun,"

 Hai selamat pagi. Cik Tari, 42, from Balakong Jaya has 2 children and has been divorced for 3 years. She's quite to respond my messages. "yalh,"

 Hai selamat malam. Ms Miamakova from nowhere suddenly send this message: If $30,000 was deposited into your cash app or PayPal or any payment method how would you spend it or what will you use it for? :A car :Bills :school :families :vacation :donation :house :food stuff :business I replied: donation, then he/she asking for my paypal email account. When checking with chatgpt, it recommends I do not response anymore. These are the last messages he sent me. "PayPal email," "send it to receive your money now,"

 Hai selamat sore. Cik Nurulnss, 42, from Batu Pahat, is a single mother with one child. She said that she will come to my town next week to visit her sister’s family. "Tkg cuci je u,"